Everybody has a story of family and love or hate. This one is about two magical men who shaped little me into the man I am today. I only wish that my boy had the chance to meet these incredible people and storytellers. My dad gave me the gift of poetry, escape, and football with love.

I did not have the ideal childhood. But I was born with the gift of my dad, the most loving man I ever knew, He left this crummy world far too early in 1978. When I was thirteen, I was already a wise old soul armed to the teeth with knowledge, fascination, imagination, frustration, anger, tenacity, iron will, but most importantly, the tools in my toolbox to be ready to tackle whatever this world had to throw at me. Well into my 30’s, I was still hearing his words of wisdom and learning from them for the first time, and learning to understand them from an adult point of view.

This was originally going to be about the motley crue multitudinal sources of useless information, but as I began this journey, or should I say was just digging into it, I’m now pouring out memories and tears of my father and Papo, a slang name for pop in Italian, at least according to my brother. But he was my grandfather, and a sweet man at that.

As my writing tenure time has grown, I’ve began to open up a little bit more about myself. I was reluctant to do this at first, because there are a lot of weirdoes out there in computer land, but I am following where my path is taking me. I have run into a couple of strange characters, but I’m the only one living my life.

Back to the story; they instilled in me a traditional family value system and many things from “The old country“. Thanks to them, I was given a playful but strong sense of American, Italian and Irish pride. My father was an amazing athlete, and loved sports, especially football and basketball, I reluctantly began watching the game with them, but I got tired of playing outside by myself on Sunday. I had no idea how much I would fall in love with this game.

My dad taught me about Johnny Unitis, Frank Gifford, Notre Dame, Ohio State, USC, UCLA and much more. He loved baseball too, but that was my grandfathers passion. As any true sports fan knows, if you know how to read a box score, and I mean every bit of it and understand it, then you really understand the game. Papo couldn’t care less about the Padres, But was a stern Yankees follower, but my grandmother faithfully listened to her Padres every night.

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  • papaleng on Jan 24, 2009

    great narrative write,, my friend you are improving by leaps and bounds, continue the good work. i\’ll always be here to help you..

  • nutuba on Jan 24, 2009

    Great article and a wonderful tribute to your dad and grandfather! We have a lot of similar sports memories in common, and we share many of the same icons. I loved Hank Aaron, and Dad took me to see a Braves game once back in 1972. Hammerin’ Hank hit a home run in the bottom of the ninth (against the Cubs, who still won the game). I was a thrilled kid! Thanks for bringing back memories!

  • Joni Keith on Jan 24, 2009

    I thik this is one of your best articles yet. It comes straight from your heart and that comes through to the reader. I didn’t see Joe Montana or Jerry Rice’s name on your list. But I think it’s awesome how the lasat name on your list is your dad. I’m sure he was first in your heart.

  • AC Hamilton III on Jan 24, 2009

    That was a really awesome piece BoJack!!!!! You hit that one out of the park. My dad was always at least 1200 miles away, but I am always glad to hear of others who had a dad close and sharing. All I can do, is be there for mine. Great stuff! I don’t cry man, my eyes just sweat. Lol

    AC

  • Christine Ramsay on Jan 24, 2009

    A wonderful write BoJack. Your dad and grandfather sound like great role models. You must feel lucky to have had them.

    Christine

  • Chambo on Jan 24, 2009

    Sound like great men. Nice work. RJ

  • Wylrhyss Terrado RN on Jan 24, 2009

    Just splendid…. Amazing work of art…

  • Bo Russo on Jan 24, 2009

    Thanks you guys,love the heartfelt comments.My eyes did well up writing this.In an earlier piece written on thanksgiving,I talked about his poetry.He had notebooks full of it.I went to go get them,but Papo took the whole thing really hard and had one of my cousins take everything out of the house.They got misplaced and nobody remembered what happened to them.

  • Lauren Axelrod on Jan 24, 2009

    we are seeing such a new side to you my friend. This was wonderful.

  • Betty Carew on Jan 24, 2009

    What a wonderful article and a wonderful tribute to your father and your grandfather. You are their legacy and I’m sure they would have been so proud of you for writing this tribute.

  • Inna Tysoe on Jan 25, 2009

    That was wonderful.

    Thank you for sharing it.

    Inna

  • rutherfranc on Jan 25, 2009

    great article about Bojack453 & 452! heartwarming too

  • PR Mace on Jan 25, 2009

    Great story, I too am seeing a different side of you. I like it.

  • nenen on May 28, 2009

    you know, sometimes we seldom see that fathers do have a great impact in our lives just as our mothers do. i salute your grandfather and father for leaving a legacy in you

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