Memories and mixed emotions in a visit to the Falklands War former scene.


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Driving away from Stanley, it’s all country and silence, and the wind, always the wind. The low temperatures in January remind you the proximity with the South Pole. Once in a while along the rural road you can see an isolated farm surrounded by some sheep, the animal in which it’s based part of the local industry, like those hand made warm wool sweaters and the gorgeous lamb steaks.

We -the members of the TV crew- go to Darwin, where the Argentinian cemetery is located, an obligated stop. It seems to be in the middle of nowhere and it doesn’t have any walls of fences. Just a group of simple gravestones and white crosses on the colorless grass, without any hint of recent visitors.

After the war, only around two hundreds corpses were identified, so in most of the gravestones you can’t even read their names, what’s replaced by the script: “Argentinian soldier, only known by God”. When we read that, we suddenly feel even colder, and it starts to rain.

We don’t have enough flowers for everyone, but we know there are no flowers enough.

I think about the relatives of the dead soldiers, some of them who I interviewed in Buenos Aires, lots of them who never could visit this cemetery and I would like to cry, not only for them, but also for my own naive infant memories of the war.

I’m an adult now and I have learned the lesson that teachers usually don’t teach, but life does: the good doesn’t always win and most of the times there aren’t even good and bad sides, but a lot of misunderstanding between people from different cultures.  

Embraced by the solitude of the dead, I can’t sing the march anymore, but now I know exactly what the wind is crying out.

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  • nobert soloria bermosa on Feb 1, 2009

    beautiful and vividly expressed,thanks for the wonderful read

  • Reilley on Feb 1, 2009

    Wonderfully executed, and your pictures weere the perfect seasoning.

  • papaleng on Feb 1, 2009

    what an excellent write,your insights are vividly express and the photos compliment the work.

  • agua de luna on Feb 1, 2009

    Thanks for the geographic, historical and human stroll. Very Well!

  • Clay Hurtubise on Feb 1, 2009

    Nice piece! I’ve been to Argentina a couple of time and thought the people were terrific. As a climber (on Aconcagua) I was warned not to hike because of the dispute between Argentina and Chile: this was after the conflict with England. It has been years, but your piece makes me want to return!
    Thanks,
    Clay

  • mythos on Feb 1, 2009

    Muy bueno, y bellas las fotografías.
    Felicitaciones.

  • AC Hamilton III on Feb 1, 2009

    Que real y verdad su historia. Tambien, sus detalles estan excelente.

    Great job! I was stationed in the UK as a young military man when this happened, so I am all too familiar with the story. Not many soldiers look excitedly toward the battle and all it means. You handle a delicate subject well.

    AC

  • Maria Blazz on Feb 1, 2009

    Thanks to everyone for the kind comments!
    AC: as you said, it’s a very delicate subject and I didn’t want to discuss the political side but share a personal experience. I’m glad I have been able to express it.

  • rutherfranc on Feb 1, 2009

    A very nice way of sharing your personal experience.. I can imagine the islands as you described them.. thank you for the opportunity to be more informed about the islands.

  • T.Rex McGoogle on Feb 1, 2009

    I loved reading about your time in the Falklands. I remember
    the conflict so clearly and I was wishing everybody could settle it peacefully and just get along. I was fascinated enjoying the
    visit to those islands vcariously through you.

  • The Quail on Feb 3, 2009

    beautiful and vividly expressed

  • Joie Schmidt on Feb 4, 2009

    Absolutely beautiful – - you truly have a gift for writing and expressing powerful emotions.

    Blessings.

    Sincerely,

    -Liane Schmidt.

  • Joe Dorish on Feb 5, 2009

    Great article Maria!

  • nutuba on Feb 6, 2009

    You’ve done a great job connecting your memories of the past with the present; your feelings are expressed very well. This was really interesting reading! Thank you for sharing this. Great job!

  • eddiego65 on Feb 8, 2009

    Excellent article.

  • denus on Feb 17, 2009

    truly wonderful.

  • primcc on May 9, 2010

    Muy bueno, Maria. Me gusta mucho como expresas tus sensaciones sin recurrir a ofender a ninguna de las dos partes.

    Saludos, segui asi

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