Hi again. Same day different update. So i had my appointment and then a brief visit with my mother. As previously stated she is not mentally sound. My mother and I have always had a rocky relationship. A brief history would include the fact that she has always been obsessed with men. No matter which kind of man just any. I remember as a child being taken all over the country on missions to meet random men she met through the singles papers. I recall being left at a bed and breakfast out of state with my sister while she left to go visit her man for the night. May I add that she believes that she is a very strong christian and that all Christians should live there life as she dose. Anyhow my uncle is currently going through a tough divorce after 13 years of a seemingly perfect marriage. his wife was consumed with God and her second love of running. She home schooled her children and they did not even have cable TV. She one day up and left and has never been the same since. My visit with my mother of course touched on this topic. To my mother she must be a hussy looking for random men. As being a psychology student and a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, I feel that something had to have happened in her mind that caused such a sudden and dramatic change in her life. My reason for writing this is to ask if you believe that after 13 years a person can be completely stable and leave there family and moral values behind or if there could possibly be a mental break down of some sorts that has occurred. I am very interested in hear an opinion and I am always willing to be open to any rational input. thanks chat with you later.