There is in this a day a silent cancer demonically creeping through out the land. The Consequences of this paralysis to the emotions and conscience of humanity has suffocated dreams and ambitions of a lifetime. This hovering and sweeping effect of lust and selfishness chokes away, daily at the foundation of Gods first, greatest and the oldest institutional relationship. Marriage is not unlike the relationship of Father to son, son to humanity and humanity with the Holy Spirit. Glamorized by Hollywood and haphazardly dealt with by clergy. Ignored by friends and family and clinically excused by means of therapy and medication. It has been dismissed by the stroke of a gavel having destroyed with relentless and careless acts of sexual misconduct. Its ruins are more divesting than any war torn village and the poison contagious by divine decree, will out live the damage of any chemical, nuclear or atomic weapon known to this generation. The underlining source of ruination, to the family is the siege of the genital parts of both male and female. The culprit is Satan and his willful participants.

Silence and denial have been and still are the greatest forms of camouflage for adultery, however; times have changed and as never before society is reaping the consequences of its over indulgence in sexual perversion and promiscuity. No one really wants to tackle the issue, but everyone wants to profit from it. Everyday we find societies endorsement of adultery, fornication and other forms of illicit or depraved sexual acts. A friendly pat on the back, secrets revealed on talk shows, or just the message of “everybody is doing it”. This ill-fated conduct has lead to many divorces, murder suicides, and the fostering of thousands of illegitimate children. Many of these children are born to mothers and fathers that are still married and to those that are not married. The scare and se that we make stigma of adultery is nothing to ignore. Bookstores are shelved with answers to “How to cope with stepchildren and parents”; we even have literature that addresses the issues of singles and single parents in our society. What we do not have is the ACKNOWLEDGMENT that we have an endless epidemic of adulators running rapid in our streets, occupations, clubs and even churches.

Yes, we acknowledge that we make mistakes, however; what can not be excused is the careless and reckless behavior of adults having children, born out of relationships fostered by nothing more than a night of questionable passion and for some, it isn’t even questionable, it is just sex. I am speaking for all of those wounded by the scares of unfaithfulness. There are many stories to be told and not enough time to record them all. I am but one of countless victims. I am but one of countless survivors. I am a survivor, daily abiding in the shadow of the almighty. The lonesome and often overwhelming healing road to inner recovery is one of faith. We, the victims of betrayal all have one thing in common and that is pain. The pain is deep and eternally recorded within the golden halls of heavens angelic host. The power that Satan; has used to destroy so many lives. It been fueled by silence, shame and the fear of abandonment. The ripping away of hearts and dreams has been portrayed as a social pass time. Mockery is made of the faithful spouse and their since of marital harmony so how can I a victim write this book? I am not writing this book of myself or for myself. There has been a still whisper