In life one prays to have a family where everyone is responsible for themselves and be able occasionally to lend a helping hand to one other or better still their parent if they are still alive.

Family can be a strain on ones resources or a blessing either way requires sacrifice.

I know one very good family where everyone does what pleases them, adultery is a common thing in the family. i am amazed how married people get so comfortable in a relationship outside their home. how a man can decide to have a child outside wedluck after 21 years in marriage, how a woman can have a child outside wedluck only after 3 years of marriage. It is amazing.

It is obvious that the lenght of marriage does not matter as one can decide to fall out of love after marriage.