WHY????????????

That was and still is mery question. As much as I love my children, I don’t understand why their fathers feel that it is perfectly ok to not be around. They made them with me so why do they get to run away and leave me with the full responsibility and the stress?

I love my children and I could never imagine walking away from them so I do not understand how a man could just walk away and decide not to be a father. What has society come to when now days it is normal to see so many single mothers and the men are out partying or being lazy? Men are working under the table and not paying child support. Children are left behind not understanding why other kids have fathers in their life.

My children were planned and being a mother was supposed to be a joyful experience not a stressful one. My children bring me joy, but I am stressed out physically, mentally and financially. By the time I go to bed each night I am exhausted.

I know there are many other mothers out there in this world that feel the way I do. It is a tough situation and we need to come together for each others support. We need to voice how we feel and let other single mothers know it is not their fault that their children’s dad turned out to be a looser.

These are my three beautiful children. Through good times and bad, I will always be happy that I have them in my life. I just wish that their fathers were involved.