For most of my lifeI have seen  people with troubled lives, married divorced, singles, and all they could say is ‘don’t get married girl,’  ’stay single,’  ‘a man will never give you a home, ‘ what is a man?’

All these phrases are of  their bad experiences,  why should other feel the ame if they couldn’t get it right from the beginning?  It takes knowledge to meet the right person, understanding, and communication no relationship will work at it best level if you focus on your feelings, when two people connect there is that spark between them that makes it possible but afterwards it is about how you understand each other, a big part of a relationship which not many people knew then and even now.

Loving your partner doesn’t make everything perefect, the many divorces of today compared to twenty to thirty years ago is at  an an asounding rate.  When couples got married they focused on arranged marriages,  for taking responsibility of their children,  and followed their traits from generations before so it was really different,  a vow taken was for better or worse but not many thought about life beyond that., life was about having children and raising a family.  Now with the improvement of a much more modernlife we understand our world better and realise that one has to understand the reason for getting into a relationship and know more about your partners before making decisions.

A life for many that has changed and don’t want to live in the past. People have generally become unhappy with each other because of  our new standards of living. Not many women want to get married a single life is preferrable and it just seems so right whereas at one time they had to be married and  have children at a young age which for most seemed appropriate.

Single or married woman are still happy, but in their own way.  A choice that is made freely, not every one will find a person  if they are looking for someone to suit their levels.  At one time nobody had that choice of finding their choice, it was in most cases already made for them. 

So, when you look at how life has changed it has made us know that now we have more choices and can allow ourselves experience life in all sorts of ways.