- I admitted to myself that this was an endless cycle. I realized that the problems won’t get fixed by themselves. A relationship is a two-way process and the situation won’t change no matter how badly you want it to, or how patient you are unless the abuser honestly seeks help.
- I spent time alone thinking and deciding without him present to affect my decision. I took the time to meditate and pray for God to guide me in this crucial decision. It was then that I realized how peaceful life is and that I am strong enough to survive without him.
- I chose a peaceful moment to talk to him about my decision. When I told him it was over because of his abuse, he is at a more understanding mode. Hopefully, he will ponder on it in the future, and change for the better, but this does not necessarily mean, I’ll take him back.
- Most importantly, I followed through and stood by my decision. When there were attempts from him begging me back, I recalled my moments alone and the peace that I am enjoying now. I know it was the right thing to do. Now I can move on with a new life full of hope and promise.
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