I explain what "Time-A-Phobia" is and its more commonly known name "Second Hand Syndrome".

Do you have “Time-A-Phobia”? or its other name commonly used is “Second Hand Syndrome”  Its not easy to explain so I’ll start at the beginning.  As every child grows up many things stick in your mind good or bad.  A famous quote attributed to “St, Francis Xavier” is “Give me a child until he is seven and I’ll give you the Man” 

Digital L.E.D. Watches

I was around six when I noticed my mother clutching her handbag and rocking gently back and forth in her chair, every few seconds my mother would stare at the clock and rock slightly harder in the chair.  This was one Saturday afternoon in 1970, my father came into the room and put his hands on his hips and said  “Look they said they will pick us up at 3.30 and its only 3.40 so their a bit late”  My mother replied  “Well this is my cousins wedding they should be here on time!”

My father turned to me and said  “Ignore your mother she is obsessed with time and punctuality”  My mother began shouting at my father and even at the age of six I decided I didn’t want to be suckered in to an argument, all I wanted to do was watch “Lost in Space” on the T.V.!

The next day after the wedding my mother took me to one side and told me that in life I should never be late for anything not ever.  She continued to explain that if I was late for someone I would be saying that my time is far more important than their time.  This message has stuck with me ever since and has morphed itself into “Time-A-Phobia” or “Second Hand Syndrome” the latter name refers to watching the second hand unwind on a time piece.

Every birthday or Christmas I always requested a watch, on the run-up to my Birthday I would pour over a mail order catalogue looking for the most accurate watch available on our working class budget.  I was the first kid down our street to have a black-faced L.E.D. watch (Light Emitting Diode) it ate batteries like sweats but it was damn accurate.  I would check it against the “Speaking Clock” on the telephone.

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  • qasimdharamsy on Jan 28, 2010

    Great Post…well done….

  • drelayaraja on Jan 28, 2010

    Nice and interesting article. I suffer from no-time phobia. :)

  • ken bultman on Jan 28, 2010

    Only five. I speed-read. For years I was under the unforgiving thumb of the networks who broke in with News On The Hour exactly on the hour. I, too, demanded wrist watch accuracy. Now, I don’t even own one.

  • PR Mace on Jan 29, 2010

    I’m like Ken and I speed-read. My problem with time is I never seen to have enough to do all the things I want and need to do.

  • Thomas Hewgill on Jan 29, 2010

    yes have to say that i get wound up about people being “fashionably late” disrespectful is how I regard it. Being late is something we all might occasionally do, but its a way of life for some. I’ll stop now before I wind myself up …oh good article !

  • albert1jemi on Jan 29, 2010

    great share

  • standingproud on Jan 30, 2010

    What an intriguing story.
    your mum taught you well in my eyes.
    Lateness is rude and disrespect full/plus stressful.

    I hate being late and was told like you by my mother the important of being on time.
    Bloody good write

  • standingproud on Jan 30, 2010

    IMPORTANCE

  • devsir on Jan 30, 2010

    Yes We all should manage our time very well.

  • xoxo on Feb 5, 2010

    I very much agree… being on time is very important- for us and for the people waiting for us.

  • Anupam Kachroo on Feb 7, 2010

    your mom taught u well .. Time is precious , as life is short …

  • Olivia Van Logum on Feb 7, 2010

    I can totally relate to your article – I’m obsessed with being on time myself.. I start to feel panicky if I think that I’m not going to make it to work or miss an appointment…

    I too get really wound up for others who have a totally lack of respect for timekeeping!

  • lucia anna on Feb 8, 2010

    Great share

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