My mother passed a few months ago and while she had nothing to leave in a will, which for my mother was the norm, as she gave while she lived without thought to her own needs. It led me to wonder, what if?

It got me thinking what if my mother did have a will? What if she was very wealthy? What if she would have disinherited the three girls that were left, and left everything to the only boy that was living? Would this have been fair, and would it have stood up in court? The answer may come as a surprise. If you live in Newfoundland or British Columbia, Canada, the answer is, maybe, or maybe not. It would all depend on the courts.

Many people are finding out that their will may not be as iron clad as they may think. In the province of Newfoundland as well as British Columbia, Canada, it will depend on the courts to decide if the sole heir to an estate will get the bulk of the family fortune. If the will is contested by other siblings, it is in the favour of the siblings that they will get their share regardless of what is stated in the will.

The government has stepped in to deem disinheritance of a child is unfair in Newfoundland and British Columbia. In other provinces, if the will is valid, the estate will go to the child that is stated in the will, without dispute. Of course, this is done through the courts. But in these two provinces the courts decide if the disinheritance of a child is warranted, and the child must have a very good reason to keep the estate, but they favour the splitting of the estate rather than following the parent’s wishes.

If a child is disinherited, it is probably for a very good reason. If one child has cared for the ailing parents when they needed them, which in some cases maybe years, and the others never stop by to see how they are, then that child that has tended to the parents is well entitled to the estate. The Newfoundland government is saying that this does not matter. Each child deserves to be treated the same, regardless of the reason, the other siblings were disinherited.

If the government of Newfoundland can step into the sanctity of a will that is valid, and change it, then this could be the case anywhere in the world. A will might be subject to change, without people being aware that it is possible. Check your part of the world, and see if your will is as iron clad as you think it is. Checking with a lawyer should give the parents peace of mind that their wishes will be carried out.

 

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  • Stable on Jan 30, 2011

    Very sorry to read about your mother passing away Betty. You raise some really good points about wills, I agree that it is worth getting advice. I have homes in both the UK and France and am glad that I took legal advice about my French possessions as different laws apply there.

  • pocketsofchange on Jan 30, 2011

    I’m really sorry to hear that you lost your mom Betty.

    Really good article about the importance of understanding the laws pertaining to wills and inheritance in your province or state.

    (maybe you should request a move of the article from authspot so that more people are able to find this valuable information)

  • Farzeela Fee Faisal on Jan 30, 2011

    My condolences Betty.. it is true that only when our parents are not with us do we realize what was it like when they were among us. Inheritance is a sensitive issue throughout the world, and I do agree with pocketsofchange that you request to move your article because the issue is really worth thinking… thanks for sharing.

  • etheral76 on Jan 30, 2011

    Dear betty, so sorry to hear about your mom, my deepest condolences. Good points you’re making in here. Very useful post.

  • deedaG50 on Jan 30, 2011

    Accept my condolence Betty on the death of your mum. laws are different in different parts of the world. Its always good to know.

  • Erin Miller on Jan 30, 2011

    My condolences to you. My own grandmother passed away last week. I didn’t know that about Wills. When I have my own will finally written up I will definitely be checking it over with a lawyer.

  • Tulan on Jan 30, 2011

    I don’t think that is right at all, the person’s will should be carried out to the letter. It shouldn’t be up to the court to pass over the deceased’s wishes.

  • papaleng on Jan 31, 2011

    My condolences to you Betty. You have here some really good observations worth pondering. My father died a poor man without leaving a will. He only left us with the ancestral house, that is now the cause of ill feelings between some of my siblings. Guess, Leaving a will is better than having one undone.

  • Kate Smedley on Jan 31, 2011

    That’s very interesting Betty, you raise some very good points – I’ve heard many cases of people arguing over a will which is so sad to hear. I hope you are doing OK.. sending love to you xx

  • lonelyplanet on Jan 31, 2011

    Very touching post a great write.

  • Betty Carew on Jan 31, 2011

    Thank you for your kind words. This floored me a little when I found out a will can be so easily overturned by the courts. I get a little angry when I find out the government can interfere so deeply into people’s lives. It got me wondering if mom would have left any money how would the siblings have reacted. I don’t know and very happy that I didn’t have to take part in such a farce. My mother did it the right way. She gave when it was needed.

  • UncleSammy on Jan 31, 2011

    Nice one, thanks

  • V rank on Jan 31, 2011

    That is sad. But I know you can get over it. Have consulted other lawyers? It is very humbling to take a little part of your little personal story. Thanks.

  • John Cornor on Jan 31, 2011

    Condolence to you my friend.

  • Ruby Hawk on Jan 31, 2011

    my mother had very little but her home and she died without a will. she had already decided to give her home to the one child who didn’t own a home at the time, so it worked out well. I’m sorry for the loss of your mother, Betty.

  • alexgadd on Jan 31, 2011

    Sorry to hear about your mum passing away.

    You are right through, it is a slippery slope once the courts can overturn a wheel and decide for themselves who gets what.

  • tonywriter on Feb 1, 2011

    I am very sorry to hear about your mom betty, my condolence to you, great advice Thanks!

  • Suni51 on Feb 2, 2011

    I am really sorry for your mom. As far the will is concerned it’s the same here too.

  • Ryan Bataille on Feb 2, 2011

    My condolences to you.

  • Goodselfme on Feb 2, 2011

    My sincere condolences for your loss. The courts can just about do whatever they deem no matter where a person lives. I have seen some unknowing lawyers give the proceeds to a person who knows how to work the system with no relation to the departed. That happened to me when my father passed away. His girl friend took everything and said there was nothing. I knew differently, but could not prove since she managed the system and her conscience well. Be good to yourself and try not to doubt if you could have done anything more before departure. Dwelling on those issues can mess with your peace, my friend.

  • Cinders on Feb 6, 2011

    So sorry to hear about your Mother passing away Betty I hope you and your family are ok. Thank you for the very good advice, I didn’t realise that the courts could overrule a will. Many thanks.

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