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OK i know I’m just a normal average person, but i just wanted to get things down and update on things since i last wrote.

I know i normally get all depressing and that , but things are better.

I don’t get depressed any more , and i think that’s mainly to working two days a week so i can get adult conversation, don’t get me wrong i love my kids to bits but its still good to have a chat with grown ups.

I am looking forward to our holiday aboard , we haven’t been on one since before i got pregnant with Emma . We have choose Cyprus. I love it there me and my husband have been a few times but never has a family, so I’m so excited to have our first family holiday aboard.We have nearly got all the things for holidays , and we are not due to go till September.

There will be Me and my husband , my daughter who will be three and my son who will be one. My Husband is dreading the flight because Emma has her own seat , but Harry has to sit on our laps , for 4 and 1/2 hours and he is a real fidget.

Any way to make the time go quick we have got and had events come up.

One unexpected one which came up was my uncle Terry who passed away  on the 23rd of June from a heart attack. He would have been Fifty on the 11th of July, he was a great person and loving to everyone and loved his music also. The service was lovely send off and when we all meet up at the wake afterwards everyone was remembering his life and we were catching up with old friends .

Well the next event is my son’s christening on the 12Th of July so my Nan is going to let some balloons off to remember Terry on his birthday.We don’t mind this , because i had told her she could get Terry a cake for his birthday but now this is a nice way to celebrate his birthday. It has been alot of work to arrange and at first i was worried about keeping family happy but now i have made my mind its our son’s day and we will do what we want not the other way round.

What it is at first we were going to pay for the room and food decorations ourselves, because when i had my daughters his mother took over and made to much of  fuss making out she was stressed out with arranging everything and making it look like we did nothing.We have have paid for the room and decorations and most of the food , but it has come to us needing help with the food so my husband asked his mom if she could get some of the food. so now she has started to tell us how to cook things and how to prepare the salad etc , and  when we should get the room ready etc , its driving me mad , she is such a control freak.

My husband has not taken any notice so far so I’m just trying not to let her upset the day, but I’m worried about the clash of the family’s  has a lot of mine haven’t seen Harry and alot few of my husbands haven’t either , so there will be a lot of passing Harry about and its a shame I’m worried he will get upset. Plus only a very few of my friends haven’t seen Harry at work , has i have not been able to take him to see them.

 will not let it ruin the day ….

And on the Monday its our Wedding Anniversary 13 years of wedded bliss.

Then the next event will be my son’s 1st birthday on August the 5th we going to take him to the safari park, then maybe have a little party later.

Then August 29Th is my sisters wedding where me , and Emma are bridesmaids amongst others and Harry is a page boy along with his cousins.

Then the week after that is my daughters 3rd birthday and we are thinking of going to Gulliver’s kingdom and having a party back at ours after.

Then the week after that is our holidays , so we have markers to make the next 10 weeks go quicker.

can’t wait for my holiday to spend time as a family for 2 weeks ..