What it is at first we were going to pay for the room and food decorations ourselves, because when i had my daughters his mother took over and made to much of  fuss making out she was stressed out with arranging everything and making it look like we did nothing.We have have paid for the room and decorations and most of the food , but it has come to us needing help with the food so my husband asked his mom if she could get some of the food. so now she has started to tell us how to cook things and how to prepare the salad etc , and  when we should get the room ready etc , its driving me mad , she is such a control freak.

My husband has not taken any notice so far so I’m just trying not to let her upset the day, but I’m worried about the clash of the family’s  has a lot of mine haven’t seen Harry and alot few of my husbands haven’t either , so there will be a lot of passing Harry about and its a shame I’m worried he will get upset. Plus only a very few of my friends haven’t seen Harry at work , has i have not been able to take him to see them.

 will not let it ruin the day ….

And on the Monday its our Wedding Anniversary 13 years of wedded bliss.

Then the next event will be my son’s 1st birthday on August the 5th we going to take him to the safari park, then maybe have a little party later.

Then August 29Th is my sisters wedding where me , and Emma are bridesmaids amongst others and Harry is a page boy along with his cousins.

Then the week after that is my daughters 3rd birthday and we are thinking of going to Gulliver’s kingdom and having a party back at ours after.

Then the week after that is our holidays , so we have markers to make the next 10 weeks go quicker.

can’t wait for my holiday to spend time as a family for 2 weeks ..