Everybody dream that someday we live happily ever after with our family, love ones and friends. We read only that phrase in the children book story, seen in the fairy story movies. Is it possible to become real in our life? Does everyone of us try to find and apply in our life.

Does you and me are the one make our destiny or fate? Did we determine and say I’m sure me and my family become happily ever after?

Who lives happily ever after? It would be the one who accepts all the stuff life throws at them, and handles them as best they can. All lives end in death. Accept that fact and be happy.

Jobs are most likely to be temporary, at least temporarily if not permanently. But as it stands now, one should learn how to look for work, or be flexible in managing one’s business. Need to file bankruptcy? Accept the fact that it’s the best solution, and move on. We might as well be happy about it. Our faith is not a rock to cling to; it is a river to swim in.

Everybody dreamed of a happy life. A perfect marriage, a perfect family, everything in perfect condition and in perfect situation, but things aren’t like that. The more we expect, the more we get frustrated when things went wrong.

We are the architect of our own future, we made what we are now. Some people are blaming and pointing their fingers to other people and even to the government for what they are suffering right now. Ok, granting in some aspect that other people or the government made our lives miserable, but not everything, just a part of it.

Happiness is your choice, you can be happy if you want to, or you can be sad if you choice to be sad. Why? Because even if you are having problem it doesn’t mean that you must be sad or upset. You can still smile and be happy even if you are facing problem. One great success in life is, when you learn to face trials with a smile, in your face and in your heart. Make those trials as a part of every challenge that you encounter in this life. Like those participants in every sports having an open mind, whether to lose or win, they never gave up but accept defeat as a challenge to do their best next time.

I always look life from the positive aspect, that in every trial and down times, there is always hope and the sun will surely shine after the storm. I’ve been through a lot of trials, but I am still happy and face every failure as a success and count every defeat as a winning moment. Life is too short to be wasted for nonsense bitterness and frustration.