I had read this line somewhere on the other day and it has got me into thinking:

It’s a beautiful sentence and is full of meaning: Yes, Love is saying yes to belonging!

But then, belonging at what cost?

Do we need to judge the love that comes by us or do we need to follow it blindly and see it through the end?

Do we need the love that nourishes us and helps us to grow bolder and brighter or do we need to help some one to grow bolder and brighter by sacrificing ourselves?

What is so endearing about love that we always “long to belong someone?”

Is it because we don’t know how to love ourselves and we need this “belonging” to help us in letting out our heart full of love trapped inside us, but not being used for ourselves?

Do we need to realize our self-worth before or after belonging to someone?

What if that some one doesn’t understand our value and we feel disappointed with him?

Do we need to move on and experiment love with someone else or do we allow ourselves in getting trapped into a relationship which is detrimental to our own life and living?

Does “belonging” to some one is what it is? Just belonging to some one?

Being stranded at the same place and at the same stage of life?

Does belonging to someone entitle us to earn and gain or loose and getting lost?

When does this belonging end and how does it get started?

Does this gaining for ourselves justifies the belonging thing and the loosing out on ourselves is detrimental to this belonging thing?

Why should there be a belonging at all? Why can’t we live our lives independently?

Does belonging represent our innate fears on our uncertain future of falling in ill or falling out of jobs?

Do we need to belong to someone so that we shall be taken care of in those uncertain times?

Where this belonging thing shall take us? Does it take us towards freedom or towards bondage?

Does bondage for the life time justifies the “taking care of our misfortunes” by some one in the short run? If that is the case, why so and if not, why not…?

Why longing for some one justifies the belonging to some one? Why can’t we be friends and care for people but do not need to belong to some one?

There are questions and more questions and the answer lies in the individual hearts and in the individual relationships!

Happy longing and belonging to someone!