In a world where all is right…

Slightly more amusing…. there is a tree comprised mainly of thorns just to the right of the photo that I’m sure was meant to be symbolic. This was where our party split, after the obligatory shot of the kids in the entrance…

After watching the wife and kids disappear into the depths of the cave, my thoughts turned immediately to the air conditioned refreshment stand that was no doubt just a bit of a walk away. Until, that is, Liam grabbed my hand…

I looked down at my little buddy, half curious about the hand grab (he’s at that ‘big boy’ stage where he doesn’t need to hold on to anyone’s hand) and looked into an expression of speechless amazement. Like most three year olds, Liam never really shuts up… but all that was coming from him was whispers of “Daddy” as his eyes grew bigger and bigger looking past me. “It’s magic, Daddy. My Castle.”

I turned, not quite sure what to expect, and saw…

What, to a three year old, truly was a magical place. If you looked at through his eyes, this was every bit of a magical kingdom. What a few moments prior would have been a mundane collection of plants, rocks, and crucifixes was transformed for me into a place where fauns, wizards, and unicorns might walk. For the next two hours, we adventured, we played, we explored. The two older kids took us through the cave, which I discovered was a quarter of a mile of tunnels winding through a hillside.

We battled trolls and dragons. We rescued Princess EiLynn (my daughter) again and again. Sir William valiantly slew the evil monster Dad. For one enchanting afternoon, we lived in a world where the only limits were those of our imaginations. How often in life do we get an opportunity like that? To not be a grown up, to not be ruled, even if for just a bit, by the conventions of everyday life?

My children took me back this afternoon, to a time of purity and naivety. A gift they may only understand years from now, when the circle moves and their children bestow it upon them. But today was every bit as magical for them as it was for me. We all have days we look back on years later…. today was one of those days. And it started by seeing through the eyes of a three year old.

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  • Duff D Moss on Aug 13, 2009

    Dude! I loved this. How friggen true this is. All to often we let magic slip us by. Great comical style to start with – how many blokes can relate to that…and then really quite touching.

    Great stuff brother.

  • Littlekid137 on Aug 13, 2009

    That was excellent!! I love listening to 3 year ikd talk, their imagination is crazy.

  • raptor22 on Aug 13, 2009

    Kids can have that effect on a person. Wonderful pictures.

  • Bo Russo on Aug 13, 2009

    That really was touching MND,I enjoyed it.Your kids are awesome too.

  • Katie Marie on Aug 13, 2009

    Absolutely wonderful! We do need that refreshing look through their eyes that see the wonders around us that we so easily miss.

  • Theresa Johnson on Aug 13, 2009

    MN you definately make me look forward to my daughter doing something like that… Kids are definately a wonderful reminder of the magic and beauty in life…

  • N. Lloyd Andrews on Aug 13, 2009

    Fantastic story.

    My life is filled with similar tales with my own four children.

  • AngelicaRaene on Aug 13, 2009

    Awwwwww this definitely made me smile. My babies are 4 and 3 now, and some of the things they say does make you stop and think.

  • Karen Gross on Aug 13, 2009

    Seeing life through the eyes of your children truly is a magical phenomena! For parents who take the time and energy to enter into their children’s worlds, it is an opportunity for a second childhood.

    Unfortunately, we tend to prefer life in the adult world. It does take time and energy to join in with our children’s play, and parents are very busy people. I confess that I have missed many opportunites because there is just so much I have to do.

    Inviting our children to *help* with our work is another opportunity that is easily missed, since we know that their help will mean that the chore will take longer, and I know that I have been guilty of telling myself that I don’t have the extra time.

    Kids grow up so fast – and these moments and opportunites to join our kids in play will be gone before we know it.

  • David Crerand on Aug 13, 2009

    Brings back day trips with my kids. Well written MNOF, well lived DAD.

  • Rod Ferrandino on Aug 13, 2009

    You definitely hit the emotional “dad” bone, and I appreciate the effort; takes me back 15 years to when our now 18 year old daughter treated me to a similar excursion to Denace the Menace Park, in Monterey, Ca.

  • JonnieWall on Aug 13, 2009

    What a great mini-vacation, it’s always a good idea to listen to your Wife. :-) and your 3 year old

  • Darla Cooke on Aug 13, 2009

    What a magical and wonderful day with your kids and the pictures are beautiful!

  • I Have Had Enough on Aug 13, 2009

    So true dude, I like to be a big kid sometimes; and as men we should take full advantage of the excuse!

  • oldster on Aug 13, 2009

    Have to agree about the magic of pure imagination.
    But as an adult I think that gardener deserves some appreciation.

  • cafftee on Aug 13, 2009

    I have had this experience several times while the kids have been on summer hols this year. The first time I’ve had to get through eight weeks of it pretty much single handed, but we’ve had some great times when I’ve been forced, or forced myself, to embrace my inner child and just stop being a grown up for a little bit. I know I should do it more often. Good article.

  • maranatha on Aug 14, 2009

    You just made my day. I have been fighting some battles…. but my kids were young once, and I remember those magic days. Thank you!

  • B.S. Kitty on Aug 14, 2009

    Wow, what a cool dad. I can assure you that your time spent with them that day and your obvious enjoyment of it will stick with them into adulthood.

    This was really awesome. Thank you for sharing it with us. :)

  • giftarist on Aug 14, 2009

    This is so true! I like your execution, have nice pics too!

    Thanks for sharing your wonderful insights

  • alc on Aug 14, 2009

    Great write it gives me somthing to look foward too!!!

  • Aledys Ver on Aug 14, 2009

    I surely enjoyed reading this! Hilarious at times, I could picture your face and attitudes all the time being dragged along to see a “grotto” prepared to be bored – but, surprise!!! :o )
    Loved it!
    Cheers!!!!!!!

  • JCHume on Aug 16, 2009

    I’m with you on the urge to run a way bit but as my boy can still take my breath away with his odd and fanciful outlook on life our ‘mini-vacations’ usually turn into eye-openers for me too. (Or should that be heart-openers?)

  • Katien on Aug 24, 2009

    Seeing things through a child’s eyes can be a truly amazing experience, and you have to make the most of it because children get cynical very young now.

  • mindopener on Aug 30, 2009

    Awesome story~You are a cool dad.

    Your kids will probably remember that day for a long time too.

    Thank you for sharing this with us, gives me hope for my husband.

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