Experiences make a man to excel in any field, whatever it is. Yes, I turned into an expert in managing my toddler son successfully during long journey hours in the flight with one or more transits in between.

To avoid embracement, I pulled my son and tried to hold him tightly in my lap. But he got violent, when I refused to leave him. He started crying and kicking on the seats in front, where a Germany couple was sitting. They kept scolding something in their language, and their eyes showed their anger. Of course, my son is great and loving for me, but cannot be the same for everyone else.

That 7 hours journey was so tiresome, that I started praying GOD for a peaceful journey during the next flight from Dubai to India.

During the 3 hours transit in Dubai, my son started running in the ground escalators and kept me busy running behind him for his safety. When I boarded the flight from Dubai to Cochin (India), GOD showered his mercy on me, by making my son sleeping within few minutes of take off. The reasons behind that was, he was so tired by playing for the whole 3 hours in Dubai airport and it was mid-night, his regular sleeping hours. When I reached India, it took me nearly an hour to exit airport and reach my in-laws. When I handed over my son to them, I felt a great peace spreading inside me.

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The two months vacation flew like a moment. When the day of travel back to Switzerland approached, my feeling of annoy kept growing. I shared it with my husband. We both together did a lot of research and analysis, to find the various ways to keep the journey without any troubles. By following those techniques, yes, we found success in our research work. Here are those techniques, which could help you too.

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I bought a lot and lot of toys, which interests him like car, bike, cycle, animals like horse, dog, etc… without batteries. But I didn’t show them to my son, till boarding on the flight. I kept them in a separate bag. I bought lot of books with colorful pictures and some color pencils too.

Once when I entered the passengers lounge with my son, waving bye to our parents, I released him from his stroller. Holding his hand, I walked all around the places, showing shops, lights, flights and babies. He was so happy watching all and hence cooperated with me. The trick behind this was, I made him tired by walking around for nearly 2 hours. Walking and playing for 2 hours will never do any harm to a toddler of 2+ years, except making him tired after sometime. Hence when we boarded the flight, he slept for few hours. The journey started peacefully. He woke up, before few hours of landing.

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Now the toys came for my help. I took out only few toys from the bag. Since they were new to him, he got so much attracted to them. He played happily with them. After an hour, he felt bored with the toys. So I took a book and color pencils from the bag and gave it to him. Thank GOD, he enjoyed scratching on the book. By the time, he looked for a change, we reached Dubai.

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During the 3hours of transit at Dubai, I did the same thing of taking him all around the Dubai airport, showing those beautiful shops with colorful lights. He kept his eyes wide open, watching those small vehicles carrying airport employees here and there. He kept laughing and playing with me. For sometimes, he played with his toys too.

When boarded from Dubai to Switzerland, the same tricks of introducing different toys and different books helped. He slept for few hours and that contributed more for my peace. Since this journey was little longer than the previous one, I introduced another way of engaging too. I used to take him for a walk, from one end to another end. He was so happy saying “HI” and “BYE” to those who smile at him, including the airhostesses. When landed on Switzerland, his father came to pick us. The very first sight of his father, at the lounge brought brightness in both our faces.

Thanks to GOD, the return journey was so peaceful.

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  • chitragopi on Aug 26, 2009

    Interesting narration of your troubles and thoughtful solutions. Must help all mothers travelling with small kids.

  • Vikram Chhabra on Aug 26, 2009

    I can resonate with this article..:)

  • anjan on Aug 26, 2009

    Very nice write up and is definitly going to be helpful to mothers like me

  • Uma Shankari on Aug 26, 2009

    Welcome Mythili, long time. Hope to see you oftener…

  • ajmera on Aug 26, 2009

    Welcome back dear…Thanks for sharing ur tips and ideas to keep the kids busy during the long long travels

  • monica55 on Aug 27, 2009

    Excellent work on such an active toddler Mythili, and welcome back.
    Monica.

  • Nisha on Aug 27, 2009

    i wouldnt agree more to this

  • Papa Sparks on Aug 27, 2009

    Very nice write up. Thanks for sharing.

  • Manjula on Aug 27, 2009

    Mythili,great to see u back with ur exp.This is indeed a very helpful article for moms like me who have 2 kids to take care this time while travelling to India.
    Keep going

  • Santosh on Aug 27, 2009

    Thanks for a nice , engaging write up with excellent tips,
    We traveled with our daughter ,while she was just two month old and now planning a trip to China in next month and we are already worried as she is around 1 and 1/2 year old .And overactive ,who make us tired even at home. So surely warning sign for air-travel.

    These tips are extremly useful and I am sure that they will help us in managing our daughter.

    Thanks once again for such a nice narrative.

  • V.sivakumar on Aug 29, 2009

    very interesting mythili mam

  • Remmyramesh on Aug 30, 2009

    hahahhaa.a.. It’s true that parents learn for and from children.. Nice writing Mythili!!

  • Orkut friend on Sep 2, 2009

    Thanks for sharing the tips. I’ll be honest. Can’t say well composed. Please use a grammar correcting tool next time before posting. Lot of scope for improvement.

  • Ruby Hawk on Sep 2, 2009

    Very good advise for all travelers wjith children. I’m sure it will be much appreciated.

  • Mythili Kannan on Sep 8, 2009

    Thank U friends for all ur comments… Orkut friend, sure I’ll try to improve :-)

  • Nisha from mallu grp. on Sep 23, 2009

    Hahaa!!! a very common dilemma for mums in general! My son used to stand up on the seat even with the seat belt on :( . Nice topic selected. Guess, you can add a thing or two about child getting air sick … sometimes during the take-offs and landings. One should keep some candies in handy for the same as sucking on them helps a lot for the kids.

    I guess, one should follow your approaches for travelling on leisure tours too!

    But then again, toddlers are toddlers… they can be adamant sometimes… and we may get embarrassed. I wouldn’t care much for the angry copassengers though.

    Nisha

  • lamiya on Feb 24, 2012

    wow m so so much impressed and thank u so much…

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