As the story goes, our teenage daughter and my husband got into an argument (as hard as that may seem to be believable!). Unfortunately I was at work while this heated discussion or argument went on. BUT please, just because I was not here don’t get the impression that in my “mid life crisis” husband that I was not to blame for the argument. The next morning my daughter asked her dad if he if he was still mad at her and he told her no that it was not her fault it was all her mothers fault. Gee, I have considered myself a superwoman before, but I can honestly say that being in two different places at the same time is not one of my many accomplishments.

My husband left me because of the argument that was my fault and because I did not back him up but tried to get him to understand what my daughter was saying. Even though I tried to talk to him he still left. Ok, I don’t pass all of the blame onto him, I will agree that I could have handled it a little differently, but still!!!

Mid Life Crisis, the statement is out there a lot with separation and divorce. But I still do not understand what it means. To me, and I understand that I am just a lowly little ole lady that does not understand a whole LOT, but to me it is an excuse to be able to go out and do things that you feel you could not do during a marriage. Maybe I am wrong. Maybe you have a better take on the “Mid Life Crisis” then I do. Maybe you can enlighten me. Maybe.