Growing up in your childhood you had a very good life and nothing ever tended to stop you from following your dreams in anyway.  Thats howmy life used to be drama free and stress free.  I had my sports and my accomplishments that were not letting anything stop in my way even if something was happening that seemed to be bad.  Growing up was so fun and so joyful to where I never wanted it to end but then again I was so excited to grow up into my own person with a million things going for myself.  Going into my preteen years everything was good I had my little boyfriends and then my real friends who I always enjoyed and would never stop having them in my life.  Many years come along and I was going into my college years and I had the perfect things in life a family that loved me, and a boy who I really cared about.  But going further and further down the road my life started to change for the worst and I was really losing everything that was given to me or even everything I had earned for myself.  Here is the reason why I let all of this happen and having my life ruined in some way that really had taken time to put together and is going to take time to put back together.  I let a man who I cared for come into my life for two years and thought everything was going to be okay and also it was all going to be good.  But you know what I let someone take over me and my life I never stood up for myself nor did I not even spend time with the family anymore.  I gave up everything for someone who I thought loved me but then turned me down and ran me into a dead end road where I could not get out of this trap.  I guess in this point of the story never let anyone ever hold you down or hold you back its not worth it.  You control yourself and nobody else will come in the way of your life and how you will ever live it.  I learned and its not a good experience so live your life completely free.