No parent wants their child to become pregnant before marriage but if they make poor choices shouldn’t they be responsible for the consequences of those choices? It’s called accountability Senator Obama. A man is held accountable for his part by supposedly being forced to pay child support for being a party to the birthing of their children, so now men are accountable and women and young women are not?

I am a product of one such birth Senator Obama, my biological mother tried to kill me before I was born by ingesting some kind of herb that normally caused miscarriages. It didn’t work, so she tried to kill me again during birth by jumping off of the birthing table and tried to squash my head, they had to tie her to the birthing table. Afterward she abandoned me to her mother and step-dad that raised me.

Point being Senator Obama is that she never accepted responsibility for sporting a fake ID, lying to not just her family but her friend’s families as well, taking her friends into bars and spreading her legs at the age of sixteen. She blamed me for loosing her friends, getting kicked out of school, not being able to have the kind of life she thought she deserved. Yet the choices were all hers.

I have worked all my life donating my time helping others, I hope that the lives I have touched in all of this time has served to ease their pains, comfort them and give their lives at least a little more joy before their passing from this life. But I would have done none of this if my biological mother had killed me as was her intentions of doing.

As for my dad, he never knew what happened. My biological mother and her family moved out of state in the middle of the night. I was told he was dead. My family was so dysfunctional I wondered many times whether I was actually adopted into it. And while I know I have made mistakes of my own, I can proudly say that my oldest daughter did graduate high school and is attending an on line collage to become a nurse while working in Oklahoma and my oldest son worked hard to get a GED and is holding a job in Oklahoma as well.

That is a testimony to my hard work as a mother regardless of Child Protective Services holding my other children on lies and deceptions. I do come from what is called a low middle class white family but in reality we were poor. I am poor now, but I still donate my time in writing so others can understand what life is really all about, and it’s not all money. Accepting ones responsibilities for ones own actions are a very important part of life. And for the record, my first ex-husband and biological father of my first three children asked me if I would consider an abortion when I first found out I was pregnant with my oldest daughter, he was Catholic. We had been together for two years before I found out I was pregnant.