Hey Honey,

Honey, first of all there is nothing like sin in this world when grace comes into picture. Like in movie, there is no Ghost when Love and Romance comes into picture.

So first of all get a clear idea about what Grace is and then automatically, the ghost or the sin consciousness and the fear, the confusion, the doubts will leave you.

Leaving your parents means what do you mean and where do you want to go leaving your parents? This thing is not clear to me? You have written something about ministry, right?

Honey, do not fear means grace of God, we put complete trust upon God when we see the clear picture of his grace. I mean to say that grace of God comes to us and we really do not have to worry about anything in our life.

Even I am the person who had left my parents for 10 years, there was a time when I had not seen my parents for 6 years, it is all because of their mistakes that I had left them forever. It is God who changed my mind and my circumstances too that today after 11 years I am staying with my parents, I am not married and I am trying to set up my business.

I am not sure of your nation, are you Indian, or from other country? Let me tell you that ministry is a Christian culture and tradition which has not been made by God, it is made by Human attitude of knowing God or understanding God.

God never says help others because each human being actually can help himself or herself. Now surely there are people like lame, handicap who surely need our help, but grace is all about helping ourselves first.

Help yourself first and then think about parents and the world around you. God will guide you within your heart, so stop using your BRAIN and start listening to your HEART ONLY, MEANS GOD ONLY, MEANS GRACE ONLY.

I myself have given up all the traditions, culture and decided that I will not marry unless I have my own business and then I will marry the person I want. So it is my happiness first. Do you think that my parents will be ever happy with that? No, but I knew that there will be a time when I can actually make my parents understand and God “helped” me with that.

The Holy Spirit comes to you on his own and “helps” you to take decisions at the time of confusion, but Holy Spirit will always first make you understand and then help you, it is not a blind help, it is the pure help.

NOW, since grace has come upon us, we really are not servants or slaves to God, so we are his FRIENDS ONLY. Remember, we are not in this world to serve God, we are here to fulfill our pure desires of love which is put in our hearts by our own thoughts.

Grace teaches us no bar, no division, no sacrifice and no confusion in our lives. Grace also teaches us not to get force and not even to force others. If you leave your parents trust yourself first that you will be at comfort in this world outside and God’s spirit will be always with you.

Now my suggestion will be that you can do your will only, if you want to go out for studies or job then surely do that, however, going out for ministry does not exist anymore because Grace of God means PERFECT FREEDOM has come upon us.

PERFECT FREEDOM means NO SIN AT ALL. Sounds different when we try to read Bible or any other Holy book, however, let me tell you that grace is all about helping ourselves first.

If your parents are too old, then you should care for them being a daughter, but do not sacrifice for taking care of them, otherwise you will be in trouble and they will also not be safe.

So whereever, there is sacrifice there will be surely death. Jesus sacrificed and then died.

God never has a plan and purpose for our lives, never, he has given us a free will, he helps us to make decisions but he asks us to be a man or a woman where we ourselves can take decisions for ourselves. Our heart is made in such a way that we know what we like and what we want exactly. Read your own heart and not the theories and will of God which never-never exists.

Honey, obedience is upto certain level until you are a child, and when you become a woman, you listen to your heart alone because God lives in your heart. All the heaven is actually in your heart and no where in the sky.

God never puts anyone into test, these are all illusions created by man because when troubles comes, he or she says that God is testing me. No God never needs to test us because he is not USING us for anything. Life is all about enjoying and living happily and not about serving others or God.

Get married if you want, go for job if you want, be with you parents if you want, do whatever you want, if you be in the limits then remember that you should not feel sacrificed in any of the cases because sacrifice will end with destruction.

Do not look at the world, the world is never from anyone’s side, sometimes people are from your side and you never come to know when will they change.

If you have any more questions then send me messages here or email me as I said earlier.

Do not worry, you have written such a big email to me, so here is God trying to help you with a big answer too.

You know what, God will surely help you but the actual love is in the hearts of human beings only.

Blessing to you dear

Grace
when you get time do visit my website
www.photosofincredibleindia.com

These are all my photos and since last 11 years, I had been roaming all over India, was fed up with life due to that and surprisingly today I got an idea in my heart that I should go for this website. So nothing is a waste when we have a loving heart.