Friends and lovers are equally important in your life. However, two important parts of your life are often not in line, especially if the friend is still not in pairs. Change your attitude after the properties have a boyfriend or girlfriend who does not like a friend can lead to conflict between you and a friend.

Dividing the time
Friends, family, girlfriend, work or school, all of which require your attention. Sometimes difficult to divide themselves to so many interests or demands. Balance is important. This weekend you may have already fully owned by a boyfriend or family. But do not forget you still take the time to give attention to a close friend. Do not get labeled only contact if you need anymore.

If it is difficult to find time to meet, still call him and ask reportedly. Thanks to advances in technology, you’ve got a lot of convenience in this regard. Telephone, short message, chat, or social networks could be utilized to maintain good relations with friends. Do not let him feel forgotten or abandoned once you have a lover.

A boring topic
If you meet or talk by phone, ask and vitriolic recent developments. Avoid too much about a boyfriend to make him upset. Do not merely boast romantic girlfriend, how much attention he is, and how much you admire. Friend you know you’re in love, but keep feeding him with talk about the old-old boyfriend must have made him sick.

When to go together, do not need to show off the last time you and your boyfriend visit the place and associate almost anything with the boyfriend. Eventually your friends will get bored and even away from you. Keep the friend’s feelings and respect him as a balanced interlocutor.

Engaging in conflict
The conflict between you and the lover should be resolved privately. No need to involve others, especially friends. No need to ask friends to lie to your girlfriend to cover up mistakes. Not everyone feels comfortable if you have to cover the mistakes of others. Do not make your relationship and a friend became uncomfortable with her into conflict. If a loved one know your friend was lying, it is quite possible your friend immediately blacklisted.

The last priority
Once in a while to cancel an appointment with a friend for a boyfriend may be understandable. But when continually set aside because the girlfriend of a friend can be a source of conflict. You have to remember back to your good relations with friends. He is always there in good times and at the time of sinking. He also always accompany while you’re having a boyfriend or a broken heart because love relationship foundered.

Appreciate loyalty companions by not placing it at the last priority when you’re intoxicated by romance. Do not forget his birthday, important moments in his life, and keep in touch to maintain a good relationship. A good lover must understand that you need a friend to keep the balance of life.
 
Obtrude
If the friend does not like your partner, surely he had a particular reason. Try to listen pendapatkan and give an explanation if indeed he was misunderstood. If after you think about the opinion of your friends have a point try to accept gracefully. You really are in love with her lover, but it could be useful input from friend to improve yourself and your relationships.

Likewise, when to go along, do not invite a friend just to be complementary. If you go three, try to share the focus between friends and lovers. It would be very frustrating for him if only participate as a supplement while you busy yourself with the lover.