I know breaking up is hard on all of us.

Even when we know the relationship isn’t right.

It doesn’t matter who does the breaking up.

If they break up with you or if you break up with them.

Sometimes it just isn’t meant to be.

If they break up with you, you might be sad but you don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you.

And if you do the breaking up you don’t want them to guilt you into staying because you would never be happy.

And we all deserve to be happy.

So if you have been broken up with or if you broke up with someone that is ok.

That is all part of life.

When one door closes another door opens.

Don’t rush into a relationship because you are lonely or because you are on the rebound.

It most likely will not work.

Give it some time and have a little bit of fun before you tie yourself down again.

Please what ever you do don’t dwell on it because I know it will be ok.

I wish I could be there to hold your hand and tell you it is ok.

It doesn’t matter if it is a breakup or even a divorce.

It all hurts the same way.

Don’t stay in a relationship because of the wrong reasons.

Especially if there are kids involved.We all deserve happiness.