Anyone who wishes to expand the scope of his erotic knowledge, sooner or later catches himself on what he thinks about it half-closed fruit anal intercourse. However, many people do it so that in the literal and figurative sense, it can be called the “across the ass.” It is worth to people to try or even just think about sex “back door”, as they have a mass of all sorts of negative emotions. So let’s look at this subject objectively.

One major problem is fear: fear of pain in both women and men. In addition, the usual reaction is revulsion and even a sudden change in feelings for partner, caused by the fact that many do not admit the possibility of sexual love to associate with a part of our body, which is used for defecation.

There is also more apparent than real “long arm” of the law, both civil and religious law. (In reality, of course, this “long arm” almost never let the actions “short arms” until they both behave reasonably, and if we are not talking about minors.) Laws condemn many very common types of sexual practices, such as , oral sex. But anal intercourse is the only form of “unnatural” sex, whose name dates back from the Bible: Sodom. The fact that this kind of sex is often associated with homosexuality and the animal makes it more like a crime than anything else, and assigns it to the so-called category of “abnormal”.

Sharp criticism in regard to anal sex, pornography and porn film deserves. As books and movies, leaving the mistaken impression that this form of sex for its lightness not different from ordinary intercourse. Whatever it was, the heroine always “accepts” it without any difficulty, and her partner slips into her bulging behind as easily as it does in the vagina, and orgasm, from which the driving teeth, catches up with her after the first few moves. Viewers and readers who take it at face value, can rush into battle, throwing all caution, and are often so shocked that forever left a similar idea.

But no matter what, many couples to his delight found that lovemaking should be no taboos. Anal sex enjoy those suited to each other as male and female porcupines very carefully.
The guy looks like you got the wrong number!

Fear of anal intercourse begins long before it begins directly the physical part. Many of the men for no reason, no reason at all deterred women in how they raise this issue. The first hurdle that must be overcome in this game is understanding why you should not say to your partner replied “yes.” Of course, we’re talking about when the question is put man. If the woman she invites a man, then all is clear: go!

Most men wait until the last minute when it comes to introducing the penis into the vagina during a routine genital procedures, followed by: “How about we try in the ass this time?” The first reaction of a strong woman fright: she thinks he’s going to make her do it. Indeed, in the end, between the vagina and the back hole only some two inches, all he need do is to aim a little lower.

Another bad start: “Have you ever tried this trick in his priest?” If a woman says no, she is afraid that it will give her some kind of virginal appeal and make it even more insistent, and if she says yes, then give your partner the green light, regardless of whether she wants it at the moment or not. Maybe one day she tried anal sex and she hated him, but maybe she tried repeatedly with another man and she liked it. But this not mean that she wants to do this at the moment with this man that is with you. It could be several reasons and do not necessarily offensive to you. Maybe she likes anal sex with young men, and you are too great, and maybe she prefers to have long and thin penis through his “back door” and a short fat through the “front” and you, my friend, he’s too fat. Or maybe she’s just at this moment is not very calm at his digestive tract. (Do not forget that women with this much more problems than men because of their premenstrual engorgement.) In any case, placing it in front of Women should answer “yes” or “no”, you will achieve what it will be nervous and clamped, and anal intercourse more than any another sexual act, requires physical and psychological emancipation.
Let say your toes

When you do not know what to say, keep quiet. Perhaps it is easy to learn about your interest in women, without uttering a word. Like any other erogenous zone, anus (both inside and outside) with various women have varying degrees of sensitivity.
In anal sex, as well as in the genital,  Women should be vital, so do not spoil your chances of undue haste. Start stroking her buttocks over the entire surface and watch for her reaction. Shifts whether it fits their “cheeks”? If yes, then she nervously strained, if its “cheeks” relax it’s a good sign.
Then, starting from the base of the spine, draw your index finger down her anal cleavage. Look, does it move backward, trying to squeeze your finger between your buttocks? Whether it turns asking on his stomach, when you start to feel her rectum? If she does something out of this, it means that your chances increase.

A good way to persuade a woman to have anal sex is the following: prepare it the same way as if you were preparing for her parting with virginity in vaginal sex. Almost every woman before having intercourse now, experienced the “manual” work of eager young suitor. So spend her anus through the same logical steps.

From a woman who has never had anything in his “from the rear, must be treated as if you were treated with front virgin. And do not just shove your finger in the rectum, knowing that there’s no hymen. Imagine what it is. Moisten your index finger of her vaginal juices or your own saliva. Simply use the natural grease than suddenly start to fuss around with some bottles. Quite simply, inexperienced in such matters, a woman can find a killer connection between your finger at her anus and the jar of Vaseline that you dragged to bed, and, thus, decide what you are going to rape her anally.

For this first (opening) test of penetration best to use your pinky. Your index finger a welcome guest in the vagina, even in a virgin but virgin rectum is something else. Remember, in your actions should be a maximum of gradualism.

Instead of immediately penetrate inside, the reason your finger around the folds, forming the rim of her anus. You’ll quickly learn, whether it likes it or not, because it will compress your sphincter muscle or to help you introduce your finger inside, or to push him. In this regard, the sphincter muscle has a great potential. When the tip of your finger passed through the outer muscle ring, do not start moving your finger back and forth as you would have to do so in the vagina pleasure that a woman receives from the anal love is not in motion, and in the inclusive sense of fullness of the space filled with either your finger or penis.

Slowly enter the little finger inward, until the joint, then start making slow circular motion over the wrist, without moving your finger back and forth. These movements and the pressure will be given in the vagina, as the rectum directly borders the female genital organs.

While you’re all doing this, be sure to do something else not anal kiss or caress her nipples tongue navel to distract her from thinking: what else you anal for her in store. A woman who enjoys every step of the anal predygry just for the sake of this predygry more naturally ripen before all else.
When the little finger did its job

Now she’s completely “ate” your little finger and begins to move away pleased from you and to protest. When a woman first goes through such a procedure, it usually screams and says: “Oh, Come on, do not need!” even if, without a doubt, is enjoying every minute of it.
Young girls from childhood are taught that they must be legible and neat sometimes too. She is afraid that during his thorough research and measurements you will stumble on something, to put it mildly, unromantic. Even despite the fact that she, of course, thoroughly washed the whole body in the shower and took a bath before going to bed, and she knows that she is clean everywhere.

Do not make her anxious succumb to her immediately: Remove the finger, but keep predygru on the outer part. Also kiss her ring that is bezel her anus. Gently, but should be around, more and more. In addition, in every kiss There’s something soothing, wherever he went, even if he (a smack) is for … Okay, on your ass.
Cheek to cheek

Analingus in Latin means “anus-plus language.” Some call it “riming” (reaming) from the Old English “remen”, which means “lifts.” I call this process “around the world,” not because, of course, that I have thought of that expression, because I like totally, totally indulge in this lesson, when I do this to somebody, and I like to do the same to me. (I also love to have this procedure has been extended and prolonged, like cruise around the world in low-speed boat.)

Women who have never tried, called it “Oh, it’s terrible!” at least until such time as they try and under the able leadership will love it.
The woman should lie on his stomach, legs spread wide, and put a pillow under your belly to lift themselves. Otherwise, a man can break one’s neck. This position also provides you with breathtaking views of her charms, located a little lower. Slightly apart her buttocks with his hands. Do not stretch them much differently, aroused, you can hurt her.

Before we concentrate on the anus, carry polizyvaniya leisurely up and down along her anal hollow. Pay special attention to the perineum: a tough, sinewy, the size of dimes area that separates the anus from the vagina. This place is highly erogenous, particularly in women who underwent epizotomiyu surgery do during childbirth in order to expand the canal. Suture brings something what benefits, making this place the nerves more sensitive. Among other things, women should have in mind (for another time), that the same body area men also have higher erogenous.

When you caress her anus tongue, do tongue rapid circular motion, not forgetting the hot breath so that your pant excited her even more. Just do not “eat into” deep as well as for other erogenous zones, here we have a rule: the smaller the better.

It is obvious that at this moment is the time to properly lubricate it your own saliva, and at the same time, arouse her even more. Yes, yes, I know that this is a very animal, a cave kind of sex. But, after all, have we not come from people who actually came out of the caves? Traditionally, a romantic approach is fine, but from time to time a man should play the role of a gentle beast for his woman. And if she followed the instructions in this chapter, it will be pleasantly surprised by the intensity of her excitement in response to its primitive passion. This change places and actions can initiate and ignite it, as never before.

Many believe such a procedure futile, since language can not penetrate well inside. Of course, you do not get careless chattering tongue around it against the grain until the colon, but you can type in your tongue right in the ring of sphincter muscle. Excited woman will do it, trying to squeeze the tip of the tongue for a few seconds completely new and unknown feeling ambivalent.
The thumb went all the way into the house

Now your partner is relaxed and wet enough that can take your index finger. Enter a finger using gentle circular movements and pause whenever she tenses, in order to enable it to prepare ourselves to receive the greater length and width. It is least likely to feel “pierced” if you will lie in a fetal position on her side, clutching her knees to her chest. This position will allow you at the same time to introduce your thumb into her vagina, it is helpful from a psychological point of view, because, as you are making its way through the “back door”, you are doing and “normal” procedure.

Once your finger is passed sphincter muscle, do not remove it. Sphincter is the Rubicon. Numerous transitions only inflamed it. If she is uncomfortable, wait, do not remove your finger at all. Any attempt to start over cause it more and more nervous about her ability to take it.

Now, when the subject of anal intercourse is discussed openly, I should note that most women in this business, like any other, have a hidden sense of rivalry toward other women. They want to be able to have a penis in his rectum, because it makes them equal with those women who may be so. And they want to be more skilled partner in bed than those who can not.
Woman who can take the biggest finger of his men may want to go further, but its quite concerned about natural things. Firstly, cleanliness, and she does not want “dirty” you, and especially, she does not want to see your penis after just in case … Well you never know what … To eliminate this nuisance pleasure of fear, it is easier to use a condom than to argue. Best of all this, which is lubricated, but, nevertheless, do not forget to always use plenty of additional lubrication. Petroleum jelly, for example, is more suitable than baby cream, since it thick and gelatinous. Do not feel sorry for her as a lubricant is used on your penis and her anus.

A woman should kneel down, touching their thighs, breasts, just a big “a specialist” can take the man at the top. Kneel for the exposed buttocks toward your partner, insert the penis between her “cheeks” and gently press down his head to her obodochku. Let the next movement belong to her; ask her, making the rotational movement (as if winding), pelvis, leaned towards you. When it starts to do it themselves stunned but did not push! forward.

Unless you are a real giant, the head of your penis should enter into her rectum. Do not assume that the battle is won and did not begin to wield as you would have started, while in her vagina. Again, wait. Pause in anal sex are much more important than the active moments.
All the while, keep a constant flow of gentle verbal encouragement to your partner, always giving her to understand that it is her performance that you will always wait for her, before making the next move. (This is the case, when you should not hold their peace.)

No need to hold fast to her hips, as this will make her feel like a trap, and it can be frightened that you suddenly break into it using the thigh as a lever. Instead, find your hands work on her pubic hair: if you are sufficiently excite her clitoris, she will be ready to give everything, if only you entered it in any way.

Because the anus is any vaginal, men do not need to aggressively move the penis to get pleasure. Such brevity is itself quite exciting, and this causes a ripple fullness that can not be felt in the more elastic vagina. In addition, there is a psychological factor, which replaces a more active movement of men: one is the knowledge that you are right there, is perhaps the most powerful of all incentives. Recognized by traditional standards, this territory is still considered a taboo, but human nature is always inclined to act contrary to the prohibitions.

During the first few attempts at anal intercourse you do not need to enter your penis to full depth. I can not accurately estimate the required duration of a consistent approach, it can take weeks, a month or more before you can reach the bottom.