I just have to say your cynical view is unfortunately more true than it should be. I have spent some time at facilities on both ends of the spectrum with aging grandparents. And it really is a shame how some people spend their waning years. It is our responsibility as family to make sure we do not leave our loved ones in a facility where they will not be cared properly for one good way to know how good a facility is is to watch how they are treating other patients while you are there with your loved one. If they are being neglected you can bet as soon as you are gone your special someone is being neglected also.

Thank you Brad.

When writing that poem I was all too sadly aware it could have been written for any illness or even just those in Homes etc due to simple old age.

I’m sure a lot, if not all those who work in hospitals and homes start off with the intention of being good carers. The strains on resources and poor management unfortunately must have an impact and it’s our loved ones who will innevitably be affected.

I will try to keep my hubby at home with me, receiving one-one care for as long as possible but who knows what the future holds for any of us.

I loved it.

Thank you Catrina!

So sad Tracey — I have experience of elderly and infirmed relatives in care. Mostly there are caring helpers–but there must be others too.

Thank you Oldster.

I\’m pleased your experiences of care seem to be good ones. I guess I\’m concerened we here more tales about bad things happening than good things and patients can\’t always speak for themselves so I tend to err on the side of caution.

Trish btw