Did he just drop the big word?
Don’t get shocked, you know even before it happened.
Women, of all ages ,have strong intuitions and vibrations.
What are you going to do?
Cry, throw a fit, pour him the glass of water, spit on his face or slap him?
You can do anything, at least for the moment.
What about the rest of the week, or the month or perhaps the rest of the year or the century?
Is it okay to cry and be depressed?
Of course it is okay. 
Just don’t forget to drink lots and lots of water and fruit juices.
What about chocolates?
Yes it is, so long as you can find diet chocolates.
What about travelling?
Take a vacation.
I’m sure your boss is not happy with your work at present in anyway.
He could have as well suggest it.
Go to places you have never seen before.
Invite a friend, your sister or your dad and mom.
If you are broke, why not spend it in the old house.
Go back to the place where your mom give birth to you.
Run around and swing in the playground where you used to play with your brothers and sisters and or friends.
Be the little child you once were.
Go to Mom and Dad and cuddle like you used to.
Sleep in your old bedroom ,take a look at the old pictures and albums in your drawer.
Before you sleep, say a prayer to God.
Let him guide you and ask him for inner peace and comfort that would last.
Next day, go find your friends, ride the bus and enjoy the scenery.
If you find yourself still under his shadow, don’t get anxious..it is but normal.
You can cry it out once in a while.
But don’t forget to smile at least twice a day.
If you love movies, try action or adventure movies.
Go away with romance and happy ever after films for the moment.
It will just add to your sadness and bring back the most intense memories.
If one day, you find yourself wanting to contact him, please don’t ever do it.
Believe me, you are just hurting yourself.
Put this in mind. He knows where to find you if he wants you back.
Remove the “what if” in your vocabulary.
You may be thinking that going out with a new man or hunting for a date would be a good idea.
You know the answer to that.
Just reconsider, as long as you are still in his shadow, you can never love another man.
You might ask,do I have to completely forget him?
Ah ah, is it possible to eliminate him in your thoughts?
I don’t know if you can ,but,  try to stop wanting.
Stop desiring to have him. Or better yet, stop saying you need someone to love you.
Stop saying you want him, stop talking about him and stop saying you love him.
Just let go. Grieving should only take less than six months.
Beyond that, it is appropriate to seek professional help.
Don’t give up.
Prayer is always powerful.
There is no doubt, you kept asking God to let him come back to you.
Why not also ask God to do what is best for you.
Give him the wheel and let him take you to where he knows you belong.
Unanswered prayer  are the best gift you will ever received in your lifetime.
If everything does not seem to work, seek yourself.
What is it that is keeping you in the box?
Seek forgiveness. Forgive him for leaving you or not wanting you.
Forgive yourself for what you think made him not to want you.
Do not ever think you became less of a woman because he left you.
In fact, these makes you more of a woman.
Carry yourself once again  and be the sweet  little girl you once were.