Years ago while single I wrote this as a list of things I wanted my future marriage to be. When suitors did not quite fill the beliefs I listed my interest would wane and I would end the relationship. Today I am married to the man who best fit this marriage profile: honest,willing to communicate and understanding.
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Use your discretion when telling the truth;
know how much to tell
without hurting the other,
know how little to tell
without telling a lie.
Do not have secrets against the other,
but have plenty of understandings
you share only with each other.
All things from the past
must be left in the past,
spoken, thought and left
always in the past.
Persuasion should only be used
as the good of both;
not as a key of misleading
from one to the other.
Friendships,acquaintances—
and the like
should be supportive yet seperate
when decisions are being made.
Ties from before
should gradually wane,
as the bonds of love for one another
grow more strong and meaningful,
holding you rapt together—
making you One.
Plans, goals and aims
should slowly entwine:
thought, heartbeats and interests
melt lovingly into
one steady flow.
Days without your other
are days without end
and nights apart
are nights with
no warmth.
Your longing should be togetherness
with the one your heart holds
and each beat this day forward
a reminder of the love
you grew in together.
All else, in the lives
of those truly in love
become only the steps taken
which brought you both
to the love you now hold…
….And hold onto you must,
through raging storms and sunshine
to the love with a secret
whose truth will only be shown
when you continue to walk
with the one
holding your love….
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