To improve the “technique of courtship and copulation” of ordinary citizens, American sexologists Emma Taylor and Lorelei Sharkey wrote the book “Sexual Etiquette.” The most needed tips from this manual publishes the British newspaper. Most tips are based on surveys of women of different ages.
First Kiss
What women say: When you lean to a girl to kiss her, it should not be like a predator attack. No need to grin, dig into her lips and bleed to the saliva.
What to do:
- Move slowly, use the entire set of “French maneuvers.”
- Do not put your tongue in your partner’s throat every time you touch her lips her.
What not to do:
- Once your lips have merged in a gentle kiss, do not immediately try to grab her breasts, ass, or climb up under her skirt.
- Also, do not keep the girl’s face with his hands, so that she could not escape.
Sex
What women say: Ladies and gentlemen, never in a hurry. They understand that seduction – this dish, which is taken to savor slowly. “Sex is always better to do with candles and good music. Music Center should include in this volume to drown out all sorts of physiological sounds.”
What to do:
- Talk about your sexual fantasies and regularly praise their partner during sex.
- Try n odlit prelude to sex, teasing her partner.
- And do not forget to definitely remove the socks.
What not to do:
- Do not treat sex as a horse race.
- Do not assume that all women initiate the same thing.
- Do not think about anything except sex. Women do not like to sleep with men during sex, think about the last match for Arsenal.
Etiquette of behavior in the case of an orgasm
What women say: Modern ladies and gentlemen know that the orgasm of one partner – is not the end. Treat sex as a competition for the “three-legged run.” Your partner can not come to the finish line without your help and vice versa.
What to do:
- Try to bring a woman to at least one orgasm before you go to have sex. Women have the pleasure of orgasm lasts longer than men, so that she will enjoy sex longer.
- Accept the fact that not all women can achieve orgasm.
- Moan and sigh, when you happen to orgasm. Your partner will be pleased.
What not to do:
- Do not apply to efforts to bring a woman to orgasm how to work hard. Persistence and work in this situation will only lead to the fact that she does not get an orgasm.
- Do not pretend to orgasm. Do not have all these false manifestations of ecstasy.
- Do not be offended if your partner does not finish. Do not call it frigid and hint at the fact that “he is not all right with the equipment.”
- Do not laugh at the look of your partner during orgasm. You should not make faces and funny sounds to publish.
Etiquette behavior after sex
What women say: The ability to embrace after a frenzied sex – it’s the main difference between animals and humans.
What to do:
- Allow 15 minutes after sex to embracing, tickling and vzeroshivanie hair.
- If you have sex in the evening, this phase should flow into a sound sleep.
What not to do:
- Require that the phase of postcoital tenderness over one hour.
- To expel a partner from the home. If you do not have to be at any moment to come, parents and if your house is not embraced by the fire, the partner should calm you to sleep.
Sex in unusual places
What women say: When having sex in public places, one must take into account the views of the Puritan and the sensitivity of the people who live around you.
What to do:
- Have sex in the restaurant. Unless, of course, table cloths on the tables reach the floor.
- Have sex in the office of the big boss.
- Have sex in the car. It is desirable that she was standing in a deserted place and away from schools.
What not to do:
- Do not have sex in the toilet if you fly an airplane are not in first class.
- Do not continue to have sex in a public toilet, if you have three minutes to knock on the door.
Threesome
What women say: Sex threesome – it’s a nice way to experiment with their bisexuality and destroy a couple of taboos.
What to do:
- After intercourse, tell me something nice for your partner. For example, “I could not stop thinking about you” or “you’re much more sexy and exciting than it is.”
- If you name the third, to accept the fact that you can not offer a “whole set”.
What not to do:
- Allow affection and immediately proceed to have sex. The fact that you have sex threesome – no reason to forget this important point.
- You should not have sex threesome with a colleague at work or a good friend – is a recipe for disaster.