The desire for sexual intercourse and feel the pleasure and happiness must exist in every person. In the event of disturbances or complaints of sex, of course, very frustrating. If this happens, the first thing to do is find the cause. For example, weakness in the body due to recovering from an illness or because of certain diseases that lead to disturbances in sexual function. When the body is not strong right in force to have sexual relations, is bound to fail. This failure will be able to create confusion of mind, which in turn lead to a weakness in a vital tool.One of the most frequent problems experienced by most people, especially men, is premature ejaculation. Allegedly about 20-30 percent of married men experience premature ejaculation. Men who experience premature ejaculation can not control ejaculation. Usually this resulted in feeling disappointed and dissatisfied because of a brief sexual relationship and not according to his will. Further result, he will feel ashamed of her partner. If it keeps continuing, erectile dysfunction can occur. The female partner also feel disappointed and dissatisfied because of the sexual relationship ended quickly whenmaybe his passion was mengebu passionate. If this situation allowed to continue, may bring action against the rejection of all forms of sexual activity. Furthermore, the sex drive is gone.Ejaculation closely related to orgasm, but it is two different events. In normal male orgasm with ejaculation. But in men who experience sexual harassment may occur without ejaculation or orgasm ejaculation without orgasm.People who experience orgasm without ejaculation means it can feel sexual pleasure, but do not remove sperm. Vice versa, people who experience ejaculation without orgasm means removing the sperm without feeling sexual pleasure.In most cases, this condition is caused by a combination of physical and psychological factors, among others, as follows.• The physical condition who experience sexual harassment because the blood does not flow completely due to diseases like high blood pressure, cholesterol, diabetes, and hardening of the arteries.• Traumatic nerve injury or disease that interferes with the nervous system ties with vital tools, such as spinal cord injuries, multiple sclereosis, stroke, and prostate surgery.• The psychological condition of chaos, such as anxiety and stress.• Consumption of medications that have sexual side effects.• Excessive alcohol consumption, smoking, and drug use.One way to overcome premature ejaculation is a sex therapist. In this way, essentially men who experience premature ejaculation exercises to control ejaculation with the help of her partner. Important condition for this therapy is that there is communication and good cooperation with a partner. It was precisely this that often causes major obstacle for many men who experience premature ejaculation. Many men do not want to communicate with their partners in overcoming premature ejaculation and other sexual dysfunction.On the other hand, sometimes the wife does not want to understand so reluctant to help him to resolve the problem. Especially if you’ve lost sexual drive.If there is a sexual disorder, you should immediately consult with a sexual expert, so you go back home harmonious and cordial.