Friends are a very integral part of one’s life. It is Friendship that is said to be one of the strongest bond in human relation and a relationship of a lifetime. So its important we nourish and treasure friendship.

If you don’t wanna lose your friends and want to treasure them in your life, you can just follow some simple rules mentioned below:

  • Permit Your Friends To Be Themselves: Accept them as they are. Accept each one’s imperfections – and individuality – and don’t feel threatened if their opinions and tastes sometimes differ from yours.
  •        Respect Their Feelings: We are entitled to our private feelings and thoughts. Friends who try to invade their inner feelings of one another risk destroying the relationship.
  •       Be Ready To Give And To Receive: Be eager to help and able to ask for help as well. But don’t be over-demanding.
  •        Make Your Advice Constructive: When a friend needs to talk, listen without interruption. If advice is asked for, be positive and supportive.
  •        Be Loyal: Loyalty is faithfulness. It means “being with” your friend in bad times as well as good. It means honoring confidence. It means neither dishonoring a friend in his absence nor allowing others to do so.
  •       Give Praise and Encouragement: Tell your friends what you like about them, how thankful you are for their presence in your life. Delight in their talents, applaud their success.
  •      Be Honest: Open communication is of the essence of friendship. Express your feelings, good and bad instead of bottling up your anger or anxiety. Clearing the air helps a relationship to grow. But be aware of what is better left unsaid.
  •     Treat Friends As Equals: In friendship there is no number one, no room for showing off how smart and successful you are, for envy, for feeling superior or inferior.
  •     Trust your Friends: Make the effort to believe in the inherent goodness of your friends.

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  • wonder on Apr 6, 2010

    A list that makes you think twice before one goes wrong.Treat them as equals, that’s true.

  • Mr Arrogant on Apr 6, 2010

    I guess my article went to the wrong category lol
    :)

  • Jimmy Shilaho on Apr 7, 2010

    Very nice.

  • Mr Arrogant on Apr 7, 2010

    tenku

  • lirpaenna on Apr 13, 2010

    Great Article! =)

  • Mr Arrogant on Apr 14, 2010

    Thanks

  • fragile18 on May 27, 2010

    those are very important points, thanks for sharing

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