Some anger is normal. but when you feel out of control, knowing how to deal constructively with anger keeps you emotionally fit. by Traci Seidman, Ph.D.

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Here are some tips to help diffuse your anger when it strikes:

Tap into loving feelings: Focusing on the love and appreciation you feel for your family and the people who are there to support you can completely turn around your mood and dissolve your anger.

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Take control: Another thing you can do is to be proactive with your disease.

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Breathe deeply and relax: They sound very simplistic, but relaxation and breathing exercises are probably the single most effective tools a person can use to mediate and control anger.

Talk about it: Talking to oters can help diffuse some of the anger.

Consider the source: Discover where your anger really comes from.

Get motivated: Finally anger may not always be all bad; sometimes it can motivate you into action and keep you from getting too complacent.

Me personally: Reading this gave me encouragement to keep on going. I hop someone else can take this and use it for good use, because people need guides.

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  • vb545323 on Dec 13, 2009

    Thanks For The Tips!

  • Will Gray on Dec 13, 2009

    Great article and great pics. Well done!

  • Pinaki Ghosh on Dec 13, 2009

    neat post.

  • johnnydod on Dec 13, 2009

    good advice

  • Lord Banks on Dec 13, 2009

    Nice read.

  • Will Dee on Dec 13, 2009

    Sometimes deep breath help me relief stresses. Thanks for sharing.

  • Grace Kathryn on Dec 13, 2009

    If you can take a stress management class. You can learn to control your stress almost before it arises.

  • Joie Schmidt on Dec 13, 2009

    Very lovely peaceful thoughts*

    Blessings.

    Sincerely,

    -Liane Schmidt.

  • Judy Kaelin on Dec 13, 2009

    Nice article- I just try to get away from the source.

  • ken bultman on Dec 13, 2009

    Don’t get mad, get even.

  • richardpeeej on Dec 13, 2009

    I like it-take it easy!

  • Authoress Terry E. Lyle on Dec 13, 2009

    Sometime just walk away, and lock your lips before something ugly inside out your lips will slip. :)

  • Atanacio on Dec 13, 2009

    a great entry ceegirl

  • Marie Antoinette on Dec 13, 2009

    I find it is always better to wait till the next day. Sometimes, you are not as mad anymore and can talk it over.

  • Ebedeley on Dec 13, 2009

    Very helpful article.

  • ashan1614 on Dec 13, 2009

    Ken, always the dissenting voice. :) I agree with Tery – you hae to walk away and fid a calming place to think things through. The problem most people have is they expode first then have to come back and apologize later.

  • T. S. GARP on Dec 13, 2009

    Good advice. Good article.

  • barbara kasey smith on Dec 13, 2009

    Loved the pictures & the article…great job!

    Barbara Kasey Smith

  • Teves on Dec 13, 2009

    Good stuff…. http://www.articlespost.page.tl

  • vishali on Dec 13, 2009

    Good tips, i like to vent my anger out, then i feel better.
    know its bad… but it works for me

  • Darlene McFarlane on Dec 13, 2009

    Thanks for the great tips.

  • Snooky on Dec 13, 2009

    That first illustration is key, ask for divine intervention, the rest of the pointers help too.

  • jimbob1 on Dec 13, 2009

    CG…Some interesting hints…I’m sure that most people could undergo some kind of anger management course at some point in their lives. Thanks.

  • trios2009 on Dec 13, 2009

    These are very good tips. We all get angry, but we must control it.

  • Jon Abraham on Dec 14, 2009

    Anger management done well should relieve stress.

  • Eunice Tan on Dec 14, 2009

    Yes, stress management is important. Too many stressed people nowadays.

  • ReggieLutz on Dec 14, 2009

    thanks for the share

  • Linda Lori on Dec 14, 2009

    Great article!

  • nutmegeyes on Dec 14, 2009

    Good job.

  • Hugo La Rosa on Dec 14, 2009

    Good advice! Nice article!
    Hugo

  • Beyondbeauty3 on Dec 14, 2009

    nice write.

  • Christine Ramsay on Dec 14, 2009

    Some very good advice here. Thank you.

    Christine

  • Sunitha Stalin on Dec 14, 2009

    thanks for the tip

  • The Last Ogre on Dec 14, 2009

    Some good tips. Thanks.

  • JannyCZ on Dec 14, 2009

    Nice job!

  • cutedrishti8 on Dec 14, 2009

    Thanks for Sharing this nice piece

  • Julie McMurchie on Dec 15, 2009

    Good post and tips for dealing with anger.

  • Cynthia Bartlett on Dec 22, 2009

    Ditto: thanks for sharing.

  • shikhamj on Dec 28, 2009

    lovely article, thanks for sharing

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