A child learns by what he sees, much more than by what he is told.


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He’s one year old, and what will you teach him?
That all alone in his crib tonight
When you tuck him in and turn out the light
That though he cries till he bursts his lungs
He shouldn’t expect a deliverer to come

He’s five years old, and what will you teach him?
That although he spreads his toys all about
When Daddy’s home, musn’t run and shout
But Mommy will pick all the blocks up and say
He’s been a good boy, so helpful today

He’s ten years old, and what will you teach him?
That only bad boys say such nasty words
Though it’s from your lips that they’ve been heard
Men can see things too old for young boys
And girls are the best of a big man’s toys

He’s fifteen years old, and what will you teach him?
That seat belts are laws, but not really rules
And helping a stranger is only for fools
Taxes get paid unless there’s a way out
And a crime isn’t wrong if your lawyer has clout

He’s twenty years old, and what do you see?
That there is no deliverer, he’s on his own;
The rules that he follows depends on who’s home
Connections count more than true ability
And charm’s more important than responsibility

Wrong can be right if you’re old enough
And girls might be assets if they’ve got the right stuff
Rules are just guideposts that can bend or break
And the rights of others is something you can take

He has his own child, and what will he teach?
He learned from your knee what counts and what pays
His actions will teach more than anything he says,
Right is just right when the benefit is clear
Wrong is measured by the things he holds dear,

And behind closed doors he is the true king
But in front of other eyes may be a different thing
Morals and values are not bedrock, but lost
When the line he re-draws as he adds up the cost

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Comments (15)
  • diamondpoet on Nov 10, 2009

    Nicely written, thanks for sharing.

  • cafftee on Nov 10, 2009

    Really nicely written, and such truth in those words.

  • Teves on Nov 10, 2009

    Nice one….

  • Authoress Terry E. Lyle on Nov 10, 2009

    You’re so right it’s our responsibility, to teach, shape and encourage.

  • Atanacio on Nov 10, 2009

    s a very good piece well written :0 the picture is too cute

  • Karen Gross on Nov 10, 2009

    Very well put. I grew up under “Do as I say and not as I do.” The good news is that God can break the cycle.

  • Eunice Tan on Nov 10, 2009

    Nicely said.

  • Casey Mack on Nov 11, 2009

    Wow! Right to the heart of the matter. There is synchronicity going on here. My last two additions touch the same ground, but yours here is so much more explicit and intense.

    Excellent work!

  • Darla Cooke on Nov 11, 2009

    Excellent writing!

  • Hansika on Nov 11, 2009

    wow superb….

  • Lady Sunshine on Nov 11, 2009

    Well said, maranatha. And that picture is absolutely precious!

  • Yovita Siswati on Nov 12, 2009

    so true! great article.

  • drelayaraja on Nov 13, 2009

    Good one. Very well scripted. great picture.

  • S A JOHNSON on Dec 18, 2009

    Yeah leading by example is much more effective than that old, do as I say, not as I do.

  • standingproud on Jan 18, 2010

    I so agree with you here.
    And it continues right through our life.
    This to is why there are so many repeat add’s on the T.V.
    The more we see the more we do.

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