being perfectly comfortable with a person, knowing you can tell them everything that’s on your mind, and doing so, and having them feel just like that with you. Comfortable communication is huge. Caring about a person and doing things to make them happy all the time, not because you feel you have to but because you really want to, just because you love seeing them happy. Feeling loyalty toward that person and having them be loyal to you. Alot of important things in real love is that all these feelings are shared. When you know you want to be there forever, and knowing that they feel the same way. Never getting bored of each other, trusting unconditionally.  Love is pretty much finding a really great best friend + sexual attraction. love is your own design that you and your partner create, its an atmosphere of peace, the feeling of not being alone and always knowing you have someone to talk to.