Listening involves hearing,if you’re thinking about what you’re going to say next,you’re not hearing your partner and you’re not listening.
Communication must be from the personal"I"perspective if you begin sentences with"you always" or "you never" it encourages a defensive or reactive response.sex is a way of communication with each other.people who listen empathically to their partners and give clear messages to their partners are on their way to becoming great lovers.
There are no right or wrong feelings. If one of you laughs during a particular movie and the other doesn’t,who is “right”? You’re probably heard someone say.”Why are you laughing? It’s not funny.” Feeling vary and reflect your personal reality.Each reality must be respected.When you deny another’s feelings,it’s natural for them to feel slighted and unimportant.
The first thing to do when you’re involved in a reactive battle is to stop. This is by far the hardest of all three steps. Each person wants to get his point across and stopping is a challenge.
Then one of you begins as the sharer while the other is the listener.Look at your partner.Focus on one subject at a time if you let one topic snowball into another, the wrong thing then that mean you was not into having sex with your partner at all. shut off everthing in the place so you both can injoy intimate sex’s.
If you dishonesty destroys intimacy by faking” pleasure during sex. If you start faking orgasm or faking what you like early on in your relationship,when will you stop. When we are finishing and then we go wash your butt, love always come first,
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