When you fall in love online there can be some things going on offline. Imagine you are married and the person online you care for is also married…now imagine someone finds out!

Sylvia is 3o years old she is a lovely young mother to four children under the age of 13. She is a law student and a homemaker. She married young and finds that her husband and she don’t have a lot in common.Online, she made many friends male and female alike but one day she met a married man who like herself found married life not the happiest of places to be.They began to share their thoughts on marriage and what was missing. They started to turn to each other for everything. “I told him everything, and my husband just never cared what I had to say she said. he said his wife was work obsessed and stayed away from him as much as she could, mine well he’s a kid he loves to waste time and isn’t very serious about anything and I find too much stress on my plate so it was always good to be able to sit down and talk to Mike every night. He told me he was in love with me before I ever said that and I guess him loving me, made me love him. Sylvia said she took great joy in sending Mike presents for holidays and he also would wrap up little gifts and send her. His gifts could be elaborate like designer jewelry. I felt cherished with him. One day on Face Book Sylvia gets a message saying that  ”I know what you are doing you should be ashamed.” She said, “I was like who the hell is this? As the day went on she got more messages and by the end of the day it was a lady revealing she was Mike’s wife’s best friend. The friend was blaming Sylvia for the break up between Mike and his wife and assured Sylvia soon Sylvia’s husband would also know. It was very scary for Sylvia to be exposed because her husband could be aggressive. She stood up to the bully on the other side of the net, but down deep she was shaking. Mike was saying  his wife was not going to “win” whatever that meant and he assured her of his love. Sylvia however, didn’t know what to do…” I like talking to him, I like being loved, but deep down I don’t know if I can tear up my family for a relationship  with him.” Sylvia got more and more emails saying, “Watch out I know where you live”. She was truly upset.