We usually prefer to be diplomatic other than frank…,

see an example below;

would you ever say that you will not help a person who is just  met an accident before your eyes,

I think we all will say offcourse we will help but the reality is not hidden from any of us,we all know its difficult to stood up for the help at the accident place,me too… I accept

but is it a healthy thing which we all are practising ?????

Its all depend on you people after all.this is small example think over it and give your views.