This is a true story of myself, on how I destroyed my family by making a mistake most men makes. I’ve married to a wonderful women nine years ago and we have two wonderful boys. It all started when my wife is expecting our second child. I’ve make some new friends and started going bars and discos with them. During this time, I really feels great and happy. Later I started going to Thailand with them and I feel even more happier. I’ve totally forgotten my family and I don’t like to stay at home. Then one day I got to know this Thai girl and got hook to her. I pay more attention to her than my wife, I talk to her more than my wife and I care for her more than my wife. One fine day, she called and my wife answered the call. My wife was so disappointed and hurt after knowing my relationship with this women. She left the house without a word. I tried looking for her, but failed. My wife came back few days later and I promised her that I will end this relationship with this women. I did what I promised, I stop contacting her. I know that what I did is unfair to the both of them, but I also know that end what I’ve started.

After ending the relationship, I start concentrating in my job. Unfortunately my business getting bad to worst and I lost a lot  of money. My dept is building up and I have no choice but to close my business down. When this happen, my wife started acting differently. She comes back late from work and never talk to me when we are home. I dare not question her, cause I know if I do she will get mad. I tried very hard to make her happy and give her the best, but to her I’ve betrayed her. Finally, one day she ask for a divorce. She says that she can’t forgive me on what I have done before. I really don’t understand, why she is saying this after I kept my promise for five years. I found out later that she met someone else and she denied. After asking her what I found out, she packed and move out from the house. One thing for sure, if you make the mistake I made. You have no right to ask or get angry if this happen to you. What I want to say here is, no point of regretting. Don’t start and you won’t have to regret. I’m now staying by myself for two years and I always miss her. I know what’s gone is gone. I only hope that I know this nine years ago. To all of you out there, always appreciate what you have. Have a nice day and god bless you all.