I had lots of mates growing up and there were always a sprinkling of girls around us. We were especially linked to a hotel in our suburb as if it was a home away from home with many a spilt drink on our table. We would start there of a Saturday morning with beer and counter lunch and stay there till lunch go home and return in early afternoon. We would gather and slowly our group would grow there was another rival group that were known for their link to violence but somehow we managed to mingle and remain separately.  There were times we introduced a heavie or two to quell any explosive times and we knew they had equivalents so we remained neutral. This was our turf and it was spelled out. Now back to the serious hobby of drinking we all had our shout and because the hotel also had a strong link to a major football club and because we were such loyal customers they would give us free jugs of beer to our table from time to time which was appreciated. We would mix in well with all the other locals especially in the lounge and at times in the main bar as well. We also got on well with bar staff what with the bar tenders and bar girls and spoke about horse racing and betting in general with the local betting shop in walking distance. Once one of my friends told me about a couple of girls outside our group was at a outside lounge and so we were to meet them and found out that one of them was lesbian so we lost interest then out of the blue she says she would be in an outside panel van car for the next couple of hours. I thought you said she was a lesbian, yeah that’s what he said obviously she is bi-sexual now. When we all had a few drinks it relaxes the senses and found some of us got horny and used the outdoor car-park and went the grope indoors in the hot weather. We used to go out to drive in movies in separate cars depending who was going with who and casual make ups watching mainstream movies weird and adult ones too although we didn’t see much of the movie more often than not. Sometimes we would pick up girls outside well one time I recall I helped to chat up a couple we went back to the hotel and had some drinks with them, I saw she had a tooth hanging on her neck as a necklace. I asked what it was and she said oh! that’s my little horn it was then I knew she was up for some fun. I wished I would have been able to be with them but I had already matched up with another girl who I knew quite well and was interested in me did not feel amorous that night I wished to be in another car. I took her home at a fast pace. I later found out when told that they had a good time in their car with one of the girl’s the one with the horn round her neck whilst the other was timid to a point. After the movie they also went to a bed and breakfast place where she needed more action and after my friend finished she was still horny as she masturbated herself to my friend’s amazement. We would go to other hotels as well there was one we would venture to of a Friday night only. This was a place where fights were inevitable bodies would literally fly over the tables as I stood next to security he would comment he never wins.It was a great place for all of us to go and dance and just be together. We would meet other people and pick up girls too as we would circle the room under the coloured lights and I always remembered once I entered and a girl issuing tickets said I hope you have a good time. I thought maybe she was the girl friend of one of the bouncers standing there but it appeared not and I said thanks. There were the usual songs to dance to which made it good I also recall when dancing a girl I never saw before decided to bump me a few times and as I was raised not to hit women I moved away and commented to a friend. Well, he seeked  her out and gave her some hard bumps she may have been bruised. As I said blues started for whatever reason and the bodies flew over the tables somehow I evaded any violence I always have all my life only once in a football match but even then I was the peace maker. I remember going to a big hotel one night and I sat away from my friends on the corner of the table. A girl made her way straight towards me and made out as if she knew me and spoke a little while and told me if I wanted to see her after she would be sitting at a table she pointed to. There was another time when I was standing with friends at a favourite music night club when a girl had a disagreement with her friends and came over to me and asked if I wanted to dance. I went with her straight away we danced and had a great chat and she went back to her friends. My friend commented weak meaning the opposite in our lingo, another asked do you know her. I never saw her in my life. We would like to see bands at the quiet night spots blues jazz and underground sounds. Seeing bands was a favourite past time for me a place to meet others and generally a great night out having a few drinks and catch up