On September 17th was the end of what looked to be such a great relationship.  At least in the beginning things looked promising.  It ended, not because there wasn’t enough love, or falling out of love.  But because of circumstances, situations and their dynamics that work there. 

March the 17th delivered a real modest, cordial and casual relationship.  Meeting for the first time, that first date experience of hope, crossed over to the following week of locked eyes, great smiles and laughter. Plenty of holding hands, kissing lips and a tremendeous feeling of intimacy.  Here were two people, walking, hand in hand, pondering about getting closer with all its little details that could be racked up in an hour or more of conversation during one solace night.  And in their minds, what would be added of coming together in the relationship, became the goal.  Conversations were espressed of taking the relationship further into the future as Mr and Mrs so and so.  Looking for rings and dresses.  Figuring out where to get married.  And what all could be involved.  Could this be a resting place?  Yippy!  And so we go on.

The first impressions that lead you down the road of a relationship can be very revealing for a hearts desire.  Two people, seemingly going and travelling down the same path as most have, wanting to take a chance at being happier.  And feeling eagerly ready to start again with another.  Crossing your fingers and telling more and more of your friends and family about this new love excites you.  It’s as tho’ you have made a promise to yourself and you tend on keeping that promise.  And you hope everyone will come along for the ride with you.

Being happy already, without the mate coming along, already sets one up for more happiness.  As long as the first rule of happiness is not violated.  Things could coast to new levels and experiences unlike anyone else before.  But if you weren’t as happy before as you are now, then you may be in for a eye awakening experience.  And not like the gold and the end of the rainbow.

In this story, the month of March gathered evidence of good behavior.  A nice person had emerged.  Flowers, cards, gifts and dinners were all strong points for getting along.  As the weeks progressed, small trips to small towns and shopping were introduced and family meetings and greetings were taken on and brought into the relationships between them both. All seemed well planned and without struggle.  The words I love you have now taken root.