Well i think everyone has inlaw s that everyone has a problem with but its life .. I have problems cause sometime they get into your married life to much .. BUt they have to learn that s married life let it go and go on . People make mistakes in life ones purfect ..I never was or my husband .Sometimes they dont but people should be willing to forgive that person no mater what gose on in life and love them for who they are ..And not turn their backs on them from their mistake ..Inlaw are hard to get as a family sometimes .. I tell them ill aways love them on mater how they treat me and how much they talk behind my back.. But people talk about one another but its life no one in this wrold dont have a good life …It dose int mean you have to take it out on your family or friends from their mess up .. But peole do .. Everyone has feelings and sometiems they dont show it as much as they should ..I have my ups and downs with my inlaws it dosent make me a better person .NO.. It makes you feel like crap .. Expleys when they dont know how you feel and how much you have feeling for them and try to make it right .. IT dosent always work ..BUt thing happend in life ..One have a good family or a good friend ..LIke i think my family hates me but they really care but sometimes they have a hard time showing it..YOU got to show them respspect no mater what they do to you .. I might say i hate people but i really dont . Its just the way they treat others and just engore them like your not wellcoem in that famly that hurts the person .. LIke you try your hardes to get it back but ..Its the hards thing to do in life .. BUt i love my inlaws but they dont see it .. I care and they dont see it ..So i just think its life ..Then they usely say Oh: you can find better than that person but whos purpect than you . I think one can be purfect in life .. Who IS . ONE …!!.. Its life and how it is in life.. Life is hard but we make it throw our problems but talk to one another . Know ones better than anyone in this wrold ..People think thay are but their not ..So treat one another right people only live once in a life time ..When a person dies they will think about when they have done to that person onces their gone ..But their s on way of camming back .. Pople need to think about things like that …YOU ll never know whats going to happen ..YOu can be here on mint and be gone just like that ..