It was the time when my married life was in its infancy, both of us my husband and me were just discovering each other with the passing days, we had so many things to discuss on some points we used to talk a lot and on others we just used to keep mum.

One of the topics which was least discussed between both of us was the money, both of us knew that we were spendthrift but actually none of us was talking about it, yes it was one of those things on which we used to keep our mouths shut but for  how long we could do that….

Finally I broke the ice and started talking about the savings, both of us took the sigh of relief that we were talking on ground realities and gradually we discovered that I was actually spending more, on this discovery my husband was very cool and he man=de a statement “honey don’t worry even if you are spending more think of abundance and like this we will start getting more money.”And I swear that time I found this statement the most stupid in the world. My question was how could spending too much attract more money.

As I was not convinced by this thought I got worried and all the time I started thinking about saving money and budgeting I was stressed and my mom and sisters added fuel to the fire by saying that, that I was too extravagant. I didn’t know what to do and how to do. And in all these things I was completely ignoring to that what my husband was saying; his all suggestions of avoiding negative thoughts went in vain.

Then one day stated reading a book which was based on attracting positive energy it said exactly the same thing what my husband said and in addition it suggested that one should believe in and act like being wealthy to attract money. Again I was not convinced with the idea but I thought of trying it once.

I stopped keeping an account of daily expenses and did not deprived myself of going to shopping malls  my husband was happy and even I , there were moments of doubt but I just shun everything and lived lavishly . That month we did not save a big amount but the time passed peacefully so I thought of trying the idea for one more month.

And  amazingly I saved an expected amount of money next month because I was not craving for anything I knew whenever I want I can buy the things so I ended up  less things actually and my husband earned more as he could concentrate more on his business as I was not telling him about saving and budgeting  .

Actually we did not do anything for saving money we just ignored the factor of scarcity and it brought in fact more money to us.

It is the experience which I would like to share with everyone who wants to be rich. My suggestion is to just do not think about the money and you will get it.