It has been a real living proof from past experiences of billions of people in this world and with there partners the 50% of their relationship life is Arguments. yes dearly beloved readers its true i experience it myself in some of my past relationships.

But there are times where arguments start out with some misunderstandings. a good example of this is the situation what I’m about to show below.

Situation @ 1.

Boy did something technically wrong (e.g. not saying “i love you” back @ girl or not asking about how was her day today, picking his nose in public, looking at cuter women ANYTHING that guys do and girls find it offending. you get the point!) but he unconsciously notice it. but the girl find it very offending for her.

girl gets mad and wont utter a single word at boy. boy is clueless as hell as to what he have done.

boy ask whats wrong but girl wot talk about it. thus pissing guy more and making matters worst.

=>See guys in the first situation what do you think would be the problem here? we obviously the boy did something wrong and the girl find it very offending for her. but how did the situation gotten worst? well it has gotten worst because the GIRL did not immediately share what the problem was to the guy and they can talk about it.

See in a relationship when you find that your partner is doing something very wrong for you or as how you perceive it then you should share this to him/her. Sometimes bad habits can be change if both of you would talk this over. you tell what you feel and your partner will tell what he or she feels then both of the two parties would talk it over in a very calm manner to point that you can settle this arguments. If the girl would come to understand that the boy did not notice what he was doing then the girl might have a short understanding that his boyfriend can be a real caveman sometimes. boy know about the problem if he loves the girl he would change his wrong acts for the good of their relationship. In our partner relationship sometime we notice that

all arguments can be settled a very simple discussion between the two partners. But you ask yourself, we talk about this in the past with my partner on how honest and open we should be true to each other and what likes or dislikes that may arise we should share this ASAP. why would he/she not talk about it still?

Sometimes, in both sides of the partners think twice before sharing something with their partner because of some factors like:

1. My partner heats up easily.

2. I’m scared of my partner.

3. I’m not ready to talk about it.

4. let me cool off first give or take a day or two.

5. let me share it to my friends first.

6. I don’t want to be humiliated in public if we start arguing.

7. My partner is a perverted alien from outer space.

8. I want her to realize his/her own mistake by her own.

9. I hate my partner i don’t want to talk to him/her for awhile.

10. his an idiot it will take me forever for my partner to understand me.

etc and SO on….

These are some habits that sometimes you find it very hard to connect with your partner. we consider this as barriers of our own relationships. we think of ideas that we should not talk about this because this and that but to tell you the truth sharing problems immediately would serve best in a relationship. but you should also take into account the right time and place for that. if you share your thoughts a his/her gets mad then let your partner cool off for awhile. So long as you have done what rally is important. Being true and honest to your partner no matter how pain full it is that you might have hurt your partners feeling. anyway you were achieving a goal to how you would make both of your relationships better.

Fixing problems before it gets out of hand is the best way to keep your relationship stronger.