You don’t learn what you love until it’s gone…

Many folks out there regret mistakes they made… About other people. It could start out with one nasty fight, or a bunch of them. It doesn’t matter. Either way, if you spend most of your time hating someone, then that shows a cold life ahead of you.

You or that person aren’t going to live as long as you would think. I don’t mean to offend anyone about anything like that. But, let’s say you always hate your brother. And one day, he gets in a terrible accident, and couldn’t make it alive…

Would you be jumping for joy of his death? I think not.

You may even say that now. You could be a child, or an adult. But that doesn’t differ anything.

Most people regret what they’ve said about a person when they’re gone forever. They realize how deep that person was in their heart. There are close relationships between family and friends, but if you’ve always had an enemy or something, you might be very upset when they’re dead. In fact, some people even enjoy the presence of their foes.

If you jump for joy when your foes, family, or friends are dead, then I cannot explain what a low person you are!

I’ll tell you one thing about me; I was never the best of friends with my brother. We fought and fought. And one day, he was driving back home after he went out with his friends… And then there was a call. The call told us there was a terrible accident with him. We rushed to see what happened. In the hospital, pressured and scared. You know something? I was actually the saddest of all!

You see, I regretted my mistakes instantly. And when I… Lost him… I got a new perspective in my mind.

Everyday I think about him. I cannot believe the mistake I made. It’s no mistake I can fix. But, there is a little I can fix. I can be kindhearted to most people when I see them. I don’t want to have any foes in my life. In fact, I only want friends and family.

Friends and family are the think that keep me alive everyday!

The loss of my brother has really changed me. I used to be a foolish young man, bothering my brother, harassing my parents, and making many foes around me.

Now, to think of the accident with my brother, I know that I have to live life to the fullest. No turning back. No changing back to the person I was before I lost someone dear to me.

It’s better to know you had a friendly relationship with someone when they come to their end, rather than knowing you hated them your whole life.

That’s all.