I was first introduced to the accordion when I was six years old. The instrument I would lug around like a boulder became a part of my childhood for years to come. Alas, poor Dennis was a nerd, long before anyone had used the word "nerd."


During the baby boomer generation, the economy was growing and children were offered a host of experiences their parents never had when they were kids. Many children were taking music lessons and I too wanted to play a musical instrument. As a six year old boy, I was clueless that the instrument I would be practicing and playing would be part of a dying breed. Although the term “nerd” wasn’t coined or used in the 1950s and 1960s, I am sure I fit the definition while lugging around an accordion and case that felt as if they weighed as much as a boulder.

I was so excited when my mom took me to downtown Syracuse, New York in her quest to find the right musical instrument for me to learn and play. Salina Street was and still is the main thoroughfare in Syracuse and the second floor of an old building was filled with rooms of music teachers giving lessons in guitar, piano, violin, clarinet and accordion. I wanted to play guitar so bad, but being slight in stature for my age I was told my fingers were too small. The same answer was given for the violin and clarinet. I never did get in to see the piano teacher. The yellowed painted door was ajar to the studio of Joe Stanley, Accordion Instructor. His office had a tiny waiting room adjoining his music room, as he invited my mother and me to come on in. I would “come on in” to Mr. Stanley’s office for the next seven years of intense one on one musical instruction.

Due to my size and age, my parents had a custom petite accordion made in Germany, that would fit my small frame. “Bass, cord, cord….bass, cord, cord,” were my early lessons. The first song I learned to play was a 1616 poem, turned to song, titled, “Drink to Me Only with Thine Eyes,” because it followed the basics of bass, cord, cord. Eventually I moved on to play more complicated pieces and soon I was a fairly accomplished accordionist. My teacher was a perfectionist and wasn’t happy with me just learning the notes or how to play a song, but he wanted showmanship as well.

 

Mr. Joe Stanley knew all about showmanship. His studio walls were adorned with pictures of him and his accordion, sharing the limelight with famous stage acts and one of the famous acts were the Three Stooges. It should also be noted that a piano accordion has 41 keys and 120 basses, along with a total weight of 23 – 28 pounds. It is not an easy instrument to learn to play, but Mr. Stanley had the patience of Job with me. I learned how to move my fingers like a ballerina doing a pirouette on a mirrored music box. I had become not just an acceptable student, but an exceptional one, due to the perseverance of my mentor. Mr. Stanley was a star in his demeanor, teaching ability and his knack for detail. He was a man who quite naturally exhibited a soft kindness and he left an impression on me of how nice, stern and disciplined a person in authority can be without noticing any of it happening. Soon my mother and grandmother were carting me off all over the northeastern United States in music competitions and I was winning. I played on television and I won first place in a 4th of July parade. Not unlike many who play this apparatus, “Lady of Spain” was the song of choice and I could play it marvelously, thanks in large part to my instructor.

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  • happydoodlegirl on Mar 15, 2011

    good post..thnks!

  • Christine Ramsay on Mar 15, 2011

    A great story and it is such a shame that it had to come to an end. This brings back memories for me. I too learnt to play the accordion, though I had to teach myself as there were no teachers of this instrument in my area. I got on fairly well with the help of tutor books, but eventually I could get no further and sadly the accordion was put away in its case, where it lies today at the back of my wardrobe.

    Christine

  • Atanacio on Mar 15, 2011

    I kinda enjoyed this Bio-docu-short story– a different pace and refreshing read… thank you for sharing it :) Frank

  • Farzeela Fee Faisal on Mar 15, 2011

    well, you must be happy and your wife must be proud of your talent for it is not necessary to be recognized heroes, at times capturing global recognition is trivial than being a true hero inside!

  • anndavey650 on Mar 15, 2011

    My Dad still has his accordian and gets it out when he’s had too much to drink LOL. It’s a pity you don’t have yours any more… ever get the itch to buy a new one? ;-)

  • TrevorS on Mar 15, 2011

    So a man of many talents! When I was a young lad I remember going to the barber with my dad, and standing outside the music shop staring at the beautiful shiny accordion in the window. I resolved that one day I would own one. I never did buy one, nor did I ever learn to play a musical instrument.

    Thanks for the share, I enjoy reading these personal anecdotal articles.

  • LewSethics on Mar 15, 2011

    Well, go but yourself a new one silly! I couldn’t imagine living in a house without instruments laying around to pluck around with.
    I’m not exceptional on any of them but I get a lot of joy out of them.

  • LOVELYHONEY on Mar 15, 2011

    very nice and
    thank u 4 ur lovely comments
    on my poems

  • quiet voice on Mar 15, 2011

    Hi, What a lovely and sad story all combined. You were a star, don’t lose that memory, it’s precious, especially for such a little one. Take care.

  • Thespeakman on Mar 15, 2011

    Thanks for the tale Dennis – I feel like I am sat in a bar listening to your anecdotes

  • Brewed Coffee on Mar 15, 2011

    Awww…you should not have stopped playing the accordion. So what if it appears nerdy? I think it’s cool though. So do you know how to play the guitar now? You have seen those little kindergartens in one of my recent articles. There’s really nothing you can’t do if you put your mind to it. :-)

  • lapasan on Mar 15, 2011

    It’s nice to know that you love music and that you are good at playing the accordion. I like the song that you mentioned: “Lady of Spain”.

  • Ukrainian on Mar 15, 2011

    It’s a shame that you stopped playing the accordion at some point… I attended music school for 7 years to learn how to play the piano. Though I barely touch the keys of my piano now, music has become a great part of my life.

  • youthinksokiddo on Mar 15, 2011

    music teachers do have to have a lot of patience. i had a violin teacher who was a perfectionist – any time i played one note wrong she would stop me and scream at me. It’s good that you got along with your teacher.
    i am sure some songs do sound terrible on the accordion, but i truly love how it sounds with the appropriate songs.

  • nz2rdfox on Mar 16, 2011

    another thing that I have learned about you…indeed you are a man of experience..I too got the chance of playing an accordion but I didn’t pursue it since all i learned was just pushing all those buttons at at the same time keep it stretching it while playing.
    I didn’t use the keyboards because I don’t know how to play piano :)
    just the buttons my friend just the buttons, however I was able to play church hymnals just the same :)

    Thanks for sharing one of your fondest memories, don’t be sad about leaving it behind, we all have to do it sometime just like the way i did with my passion with painting :)

  • Lady Sunshine on Mar 16, 2011

    Ken was made to play the accordion by his dad when he was just a boy. He hated it. lol.

  • john smither on Mar 16, 2011

    A good recollection of your learning to play this instrument and the enjoyment it must have brought you.

  • PR Mace on Mar 16, 2011

    Quite enjoyed your story and my husband played the accordion as a child.

  • A Bromley on Mar 21, 2011

    I love this. It is a really good article/story. My mother and grandfather both used to play accordion and we used to have such grand times. Thanks for the memories.

  • brbsoul on Mar 29, 2011

    you’re so lucky to have learned to play the instrument and so lucky to have a supportive parents. Hope you’ll find another one to continue your passion and it’s really nice to recall our past. Somehow it help us to be what we are now. Such a profound memories.

  • yes me on Mar 31, 2011

    Liked it Dennis my old man had me cut out as a tap dancer, ha ha ha [ I just splashed in the sink]…
    he was always that drunk, it took him two months to notice that my sister was the only one doing tap, liked this cheers

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