There is no perfect formula in life. This is what I’ve learned over the years. Once you have overdone anything expect something will go wrong. This is true even when you take things in moderation. You can’t be neutral all the time. But I’ve learned to be pliant. To blend and adjust. To accept my short comings and faults. To endure difficulties and rise every time I stumble. Making sure I have scars to remind me of my mistakes.  Still it’s not that pretty easy.

Acceptance is also necessary in life. We have to accept ourselves as what we are and what we’re not. If we can’t accept our true self then it will be difficult. Total acceptance can only be possible when we are with our selves this is “understanding one-self”. We can’t really accept what we don’t understand. But we have to bear in mind that we are dynamic creatures. Our personality will not be fixed in every given situation. Change is constant.  

Life is still a mystery to me. Living is never an option but an opportunity, a blessing that we have to be grateful. To live a perfect life will only be possible with acceptance, humility, and love.