This is about my experiences as a young man from a small country town in Michigan. I was naive with no life experiences with cultural diversity until I joined the Marine Corps. My first few years was an eye opener.

I served in the Marine Corps for eight years. I saw the wealthy and the poor, starving nations of the world. During my tour, I traveled to Iwakuni, Japan, Okinawa, Japan, small villages in South Korea, and the Philippines. Our country is full of holidays designed for overeating, while many third world nations are starving.

I came from a middle class family in a small town of Port Hope, Michigan. Port Hope is a rural farming/construction community where time stood motionless for the past twenty years. It is located approximately one hundred miles north and slightly west of Detroit along the shores of Lake Huron. Diversity is a word that is rarely thought of in this town. As you read my story, you will understand how incredibly naive and sheltered I was as a young man. My journey into life with my blinders removed began June 8, 1988. This was the day I started recruit training to become a United States Marine. I have never been away from home except to spend a summer with my aunt and uncle in Indiana. I was eighteen when I left home. I left six days before the rest of my class graduated high school. I received my high school diploma at Baccalaureate the Sunday before graduation. Marine Corp recruit training introduced me to many diverse cultures into a system that demanded unity and team work.

A little more than a year of service had pasted when I was transferred to Okinawa, Japan. I became the kid in the candy store. The single nineteen year old marine surrounded by cheap beer and a legal drinking age of eighteen with the financial power to have underprivileged people do favors for you. Many teenage Marines have heard the expression “if you haven’t been busted a few times for drinking and fighting than you are not a true Marine”.

One November morning 1989, I received a Thanksgiving post card from my parents in Holly, Michigan. The post card had a picture of stuffed turkey, pies, salads, potatoes and gravy on a decorated dinner table. I was happy to receive this post card, and kept this with me wherever I went.

Thanksgiving Day 1989 came around and I just received orders to board a plane headed for the Philippines. I will never forget that day as I walked the dusty streets of Olongapo, Philippines. A poor child, probably twelve years old, cried out to me. “G.I., G.I., can you spare $5.00, so I can buy something to eat. I was nineteen years old, young, self-centered and selfish (just as most of you are, my fellow Americans). I told him no for my belief of any starving nation was that I can’t help them all, so why should I give my money away now. My vested interest was purchasing beer and having a good time. I just continued on my way to the next local tavern. Without a second thought, I ordered a beer and headed back towards the hotel in the direction I came from. The same child saw me with my beer and cursed me. “You selfish American G.I. All you Americans are selfish!” He used other colorful explicative words I can’t put on a scholarly paper, but you get the idea. I looked straight ahead, embarrassed and went back to my hotel room.

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  • Hannah on Aug 13, 2008

    Congrats and you did a great job writing this!

  • Mike on Aug 13, 2008

    Wow Chris, nicely done and the window into an earlier time in life…. thanks for sharing,

    me

  • Brian Daniel Stankich on Nov 12, 2008

    Chris, thanks for sharing your story and your journey, and making the needs of the world known, while encouraging Americans to look beyond themselves.

  • Virginia Wolfe on Nov 14, 2008

    i wish i could actually make a real commment, but the frog in my throat wont let me. thank you for sharing!

  • Chris Stonecipher on Nov 15, 2008

    Thank you Hannah, Mike, Brian and Virginia for the kind and thoughtful comments!

  • goodselfme on Nov 21, 2008

    I never knew the life you speak of in this write except through my own life experiences causing me to feel again while reading this. If we do nothing to help others, we actually harm them.Thank you for your sharing.

  • Chris Stonecipher on Nov 24, 2008

    Thank you Goodselfme for your thoughtful comments. I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving.
    God Bless you always,
    Chris

  • Hein Marais on Dec 10, 2008

    It is very sad to see so many people not even having the basic necessities of life. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • eddiego65 on Dec 12, 2008

    An eye-opening article. I\’m from the Philippines, so I understand what you are saying here.

  • blucka12 on Dec 13, 2008

    Thank you so much for sharing this, Chris.

    A telling snapshot of a typical American life turned revelatory. You\’re fortunate that you\’ve had the opportunity to step back and see your background from a reflective and honest perspective. I\’ve had similar experiences, and they\’re the most valuable take-aways from my education.

    I appreciate you sharing this, and I hope that more folks have the opportunity to experience the expansion you\’ve had without so much pain.

    Much love, brother.
    OAK

  • Chris Stonecipher on Dec 14, 2008

    Thank you blucka12 for your wonderful and thoughtful comments.
    Much love to you too brother.
    Chris

  • Chris Stonecipher on Dec 14, 2008

    thank you Hein and Eddie for your kind comments too.

  • Glynis Smy on Dec 29, 2008

    An incredibly moving event in your life, from boy to man overnight.
    Thanks for sharing and making us realise our good luck.

  • nobert soloria bermosa on Dec 29, 2008

    a story with a life lesson learned, great work

  • Michele Cameron Drew on Jan 1, 2009

    Nicely written, with an important message, Chris. Well done :)

    -M

  • The Quail on Mar 15, 2009

    Great article very well written.

  • Mystical Whitewolf on Mar 15, 2009

    We forget that other parts of the world are worse off then we are. Thank you for the reminder. Well written, I enjoyed reading this.

  • Juancav on Mar 15, 2009

    Experiences that change the way we view life.

  • mysticdave on Mar 15, 2009

    An incredible story, all Americans need to see how bad so many other people have it, thank you for sharing this, i felt every word:)

  • Mr Ghaz on Mar 15, 2009

    Excellent! well-written piece and very interesting piece. Thanx for sharing

  • Debra Mann on Mar 15, 2009

    Such a heartbreaking and enlightening story. Excellent article.

  • Bren Parks on Mar 16, 2009

    Great read…..too bad life has to be like that for those in this country.

  • papaleng on Mar 16, 2009

    Awesome article.. well-written because the heart wrote it. I can relate to your experiences for I’ve seen those things in Olongapo where I did stay for a month, doing evangelism crusade.

  • Tony Payne on Mar 20, 2009

    Excellent article. I think many Americans don’t understand the meaning ov poverty until the visit the third world countries. Then things start to sink in, the extreme conditions that people have to live in, and the need to beg etc in order to survive.

  • alllen on Apr 23, 2009

    well written article!!!

  • Lauren Axelrod on Dec 30, 2009

    What an experience.

  • Chris Stonecipher on Dec 30, 2009

    Thank you Lauren! It was like sending a child into the world before he was ready to leave home.

  • Bo Russo on Dec 31, 2009

    I might have done the same thing at that age, I was afraid to leave home, props to you Chris.

  • Chris Stonecipher on Jan 1, 2010

    Thanks Bo Jack! I hope you had a nice Christmas and wish you the best for 2010.

  • Westbrook on Jan 1, 2010

    I live in Michigan, actually not far from Holly where your parents live. I am a Vietnam War veteran who was a soldier in the “Big Red One” or the Army’s 1st Infantry Division. I know exactly what you are trying to say here because I had similar experiences, except that I never drank and always saw that behavior as gutter crap by insecure people looking for attention. I was, however a fighter. I also visited the Philippines and witnessed very young prostitutes and begging children. I also witnessed the same activity in Mexico. Once when I was in Mexico, I had little boys and girls around the ages of 7 to 12 offering sex for money. As you made reference to, I was like many young Americans, “young and dumb.” I do not think I was selfish however because I came from a poor family and background, so I knew how it was to be without, but being American, I felt somehow more important. One year, when I was in Vietnam and in base camp, we had a Thanksgiving dinner with lots of turkeys and all the trimmings. While we sat and ate dinner in our large mess hall tent, with its sides rolled up, many local village women were digging whole turkeys out of our garbage cans. Our cooks tossed them out because we had too many and they could not be kept. These people were also digging out other food scraps and waste, and all around us, villagers, men women and children watched as we ate our dinner. I felt sorry for these people, but not as badly as I have felt over the years – after the fact. I have never been able to get this out of my mind: mothers digging food scraps and waste out of our garbage cans that we threw away because we had too much – it has haunted me ever since. I also witnessed many villagers cooking cat with tiny potatoes out in the open on the ground and eating this concoction they called soup. I even ate some of it and joked about it. This is called “Culture Shock for many young Americans in the service.” I believe all young and capable American youth should be required to serve in the military just to have an opportunity to become aware of what the world is really like

  • Chris Stonecipher on Jan 1, 2010

    Westbrook,
    Thank you for sharing your experience with me. As you say, it does stay with us forever and those memories are quite unpleasant. Imagine what it would have been like to let those villagers have those turkeys instead of throwing them in the garbage cans. Bringing kindness and help to those who need it the most is one of the best things a person can do.
    Happy New Year to you and many blessings,
    Chris

  • BluSphere on Sep 25, 2010

    Catching title and very interesting article. I enjoyed reading it a lot. It’s “amazing” to see the differences when you compare different countries.. Our life is so far from hunger and distress. This was a great post, Chris.

    Best regards,
    BluSphere

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