Why we are questioning about this matter.

 Well, basically being single is really nice for the reason that we don’t have any responsibilities, nothing to worried about and more of it we can go anywhere we wanted to go, do things we wanted like going out with friends on the beach, bars, or any parties, mountain climbing and anything adventure, everyday was just for fun and enjoyment. Things are easy and simple to do if you are single, you are exposed of socializing with different people with different culture, and it’s really fun and very interesting to think  about.right?!

Married or being married seems so different especially if you have children or a child.Why? It is because of having much more responsibilities in life. If you are with this situation you can no longer think of having fun or going out with friends much more time because somebody needs you, somebody expect from you.

I would not say being married and having a child was a bad decision to our life nevertheless we must be proud that we have a child. It should be treated as a gift from God to us.

A child is important because when parent getting older or grow old their role was to look after their parent and take good care of them. Many of us would say it is fine if we don’t have children we can pay somebody or anybody to take good care of us but we don’t know how hard life is. We cared with somebody equal to how much we pay  for them unlike if you have children there is an unconditional way of taking care of old people or for old parents, the  love from the children towards the parent.

Children would realize the things how the parent treated them when they need them most. Especially during their childhood years on how their parents doing so hard to just to educate them, feed them with everything they need especially for their schools requirement and everything.

These are the things that the unconditional love of the parent towards their children is the reason why children should look after their parent when they are on this stage of being old.

So we don’t just be selfish and just thinking our present instead think for our future that we will not remain young but we will get old and we need somebody who really care for us.