15 flaws that man cannot tolerate in their girlfriend

• self centred and selfish

Acting all selfish and snobby is not going to make a good impression on your guy. While he might be your Prince Charming and you are his princess, but a snobby princess is not going to attract Prince Charming and you know it.

• Bringing back the past during fights

Bringing back the wrongs that he have done in the past to a present fight is not going to sit down well in his stomach. Thinking that you had already forgiven him and forgotten about the past wrongs, your action of using his past wrongs just to win a fight will make him think that you are a witch.

• overload of tears and tantrum

While tears and tantrum might work for a while, overloading you guy in tears will drown him and kill the desired effects for hugs and love.

• plotting behind his back

Doing little things behind his back, getting his friends, parents or siblings to be involved in your plans to get a desired results that is not welcome by him is going to make him think that you are some kind of manipulative bitch.

• excessive nagging

Stop nagging. Full stop. I just want a peaceful and quiet place to think and sit in a daze. Thank you.

• over suspicion on his activities

I don’t want to get jumpy over everything that I am doing. Stop calling every few minutes just to ask what I am doing. Some breathing space is needed. And trust me, if there’s no trust, what’s the use of continuing with this relationship.

• wearing high heel shoes all the time

I don’t like tall girls that are taller than me. Genetics made me so. And I don’t like you clinging onto me while you are trying to walk in those heels.

• acting like his mum

I already have a mum. Don’t need a second one. Thank you.

• whining and complaining about everything

While I love to be needed by you, but I don’t like hearing you whine and complain about some other people you’ve seen, how your nails are badly done, blah blah. They are just senseless noises that my ears are trying to filter out.

• Being overly dependent on him

While I like to be needed by you, but if you were perfectly good at taking care of yourself, why have you suddenly lost that ability when I am with you? I am not nursing a baby.

• Comparing and trying to be like others

I love you for what you are. Don’t keep comparing yourself with others and keep trying to make yourself the same as them. Clones are not lovable.

• Asking him questions like “Do you not love me anymore?”

And don’t ask me silly questions on whether I love you every few days, or if my mum and you dropped into the river, who I am going to save first. These hypothetical questions, no matter what I answer, I will always get the wrong answer and you will always not be happy with my answers.

• chasing after luxury goods

Materialistic girls? nothing much to say.

• 24 hours supervision on what he is doing

I am looking for a girlfriend, someone to love. Not a surveillance camera.

• Having a overly active social life and neglecting him.

Make time for me, don’t spend all your time with your friends and leave me alone. We are in a relationship and you should devote some time and love for me.