We are all driving in our own street called LIFE… The journey that we must take to reach our destinations is for us to map out along the course of our lives. We must make a choice because we have to choose which path to take, either holding on or letting go. I simply believe in choices as i believe in commitment. In the middle of all relationship crises, we all go back to one old truth… Life holds no guarantees that we will not astray but one thing is definite; all things come in being in their own time.

Our desires are like seeds left in the ground; they wait for the right reason. Let’s not punish ourselves for the wrong decisions we have made, let’s not stay locked forever in the room of regret “coz there should never be regrets but a life long appreciation of choices we made. Let”s just accept the fact that there are things we cannot do, never force yourself into something that doesn’t fit. We try & try to control the events in our lives often to the point of being fanatic about it. Life rarely turns out the way we want it to be, do what it takes to make that difference in your life. God has a reason for allowing things to happen sometimes we don’t understand it or refused to understand but we have to simply trust His will…

One can spend a lifetime looking for the right person and when you found it, you discover that it’s not the right person you’ve been looking for… maybe it’s time to say goodbye, maybe it’s time to set things right. But one thing kept going through my mind; it’s easy to say that someone else will come our way at the right time yet, we can never be certain. It’s because there are things we can’t see but choose to believe in and reasons we have but can’t explain. We never really know where life will take us next. Is it less painful to leave someone than to be left behind?

I wish i could tell you but i’m not endowed yet with wisdom to know the difference…

I guess love is reason enough to move on.