It is a story about how many people feel and how they have to manage their lives without a leg or arm. This is one of the hardest circumstances a human have to go through. This is my uncle Bob’s story from what he experiences in life.

Like on a daily basis I wake up at six O’clock in the morning. Not knowing how life will defy me today. I get out of my room and get in to the bathroom. I take a bath with a lot of difficulties since I don’t have a limb in my right arm which used to be my key hand. , it came the most difficult part of all, getting dressed and did I mention that I live unaccompanied (ALONE). So, when nearing at the point of getting dressed I don’t try to scuttle myself because I know it’s going to be complicated and uneasy. It takes a lot of time to put the clothes on when a limb is missing off of your main arm. Then, when I’m done I put some gel on my hair and go out.

It’s sad to know that you’re doing something one day and then you’re at the hospital in front of people telling you that you had an accident. Everything happens at a blink of an eye. And suddenly you notice you cannot feel the limb of your arm. For a long, long, long moment you see the world falling right on your face. You ask yourself many questions; Is this really happening? Why to me? What have I done to deserve this? How am I going to survive? And much more. You get angry at everything for reason or no reason. That what happens when it occurs to you just like it happened to me. But now, when I’m always at a point of turning the back on something I see that I can’t do I remember what my father used to say “In life you will find many difficult tasks but that won’t mean they are impossible to do.” Since man put foot on earth, adaption has being a key element of our survival.

32
Liked it
Comments (12)
  • Mrs M on Jun 17, 2009

    I think there is a difference between people who are born without a limb and people who have a limb taken. Each person that I have met that did not have a limb, not once did they feel sorry for themselves. It was life as they had always known it. One person I had met who had gotten in an accident and lost their leg went thru some tough moments. At times they wondered \”Why me?\”. Other times they were just thankful that they were alive.

  • Tito on Jun 19, 2009

    good story

  • John on Jun 21, 2009

    i agree with u in some things but nice write

  • Darla Cooke on Jun 21, 2009

    Very nice story.

  • LoveNFood on Jun 22, 2009

    It is an interesting story

  • Momma Tells on Jun 22, 2009

    Thanks for sharing your uncle’s story

  • Francois Hagnere on Jun 22, 2009

    A great article my friend. Certain things need to be told and you do it so well. Congratulations.
    Very best wishes,
    François

  • Ruby Hawk on Jun 22, 2009

    Your uncle is a brave adaptable man. it’s wonderful for you to tell his story. I wish both of you well.

  • J J Neuman on Jun 22, 2009

    When I see something like this, I realize my daily struggles are not nearly as bad as I think they are. I can’t imagine handling life as hard as it is with a missing arm. Thanks for sharing and the reality check.

  • Francy on Jun 22, 2009

    Thanks for all your comments. I really appreciate all of them.

    I’ll do the same for all of you.
    Keep sharing.

  • swatilohani on Jun 24, 2009

    cool

  • tingtingyang on Jun 24, 2009

    I watch this same thing with my son and me and my eldest daughter. My daughter and I grew up in an all Asian world, but now everything is diffrent in the small town we live in. We have to change everything to make it where we are now. How we talk what we eat. Every day is a strugle. My second son is handy cap. He was not born that way and he is not missing a limb. He has to learn everything again from the time of when he was a baby. I watch everyday as he strugles to get something he knows that he was once able to do without thinking. This article I can relate to in so many diffrent ways. Thanks for giving me one more positive to look at the way things are in my life.

Leave a Comment

Hi there!

Hello! Welcome to Authspot, the spot for creative writing.
Read some stories and poems, and be sure to subscribe to our feed!

Find the Spot

Loading