Yes naturally no one want a bad guy to be her husband and they really want a good guy. But the problem is that how much good they want? Some may not able to define how much good and some other may not very clear how good they want. That bring her not able to find that good guy, why? Because they afraid of failure in family life.. They hesitate to choose a man to be her husband.

Actually, a perfect man mean very different from girl to girl but in case you really want a perfect man it is absolutely almost 100% you don’t meet him because he may not exist in this world. Or he may be at the heaven or where the god are staying.

Some try to define the criteria for the man who should be her husband. Some got a few points of criteria while some got many criteria but they do forget to think about her criteria. Meaning that, in her current situation and attitude is it suit to such man? Will she have enough criteria to provide to such man? Because relation (in any form such friend, couple, relative, etc.) exist the give and get. In case give and get is not balance it will create the problem unless some other component come along such patient, kindness, etc. from other party.

So why lock yourself which such stupid idea? Some may not a perfect man but he may have more qualification than you, so why don’t you go?

It’s not the criticism to the woman but for man as well. But my description is only about girl because I just try to translate from above picture. But it’s not mean that man is out of the discussion, but it also be concerned.